dmr8843 Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 This is specifically for men....how can a woman tell/sense that you are interested? Please give me some helpful hints as to friendly touching; touch on the the shoulder, pulling hair, etc...childish behavior, eye winks, etc...Also, how do you sense a man is not interest; for example, recieving emails like crazy and all of a sudden nothing, no calls at all when normally I would get a call once a week, avoiding emails, etc...all of these examples I get; good and bad, so I am confused. I just want to know how I can generally/simplistically read a man. It can't be too hard, right??? I just have a lot on my mind and I need to slowly dismiss the feelings I have because I truly don't feel this man is interested. Just curious. Thanks guys!!!!
califnan Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Dmr, If this is the same as the married classmate in your other thread.. the analyzing just isn't worth it.. If he flirts with you, he does it for his benefit .. if he pulls away, he does it for his benefit .. When it is the Right man, you will Know it .. You will Both be free, and excited, exhilarated..
Author dmr8843 Posted July 4, 2010 Author Posted July 4, 2010 Yes it is and thank you!!!!!! I am trying very hard believe it or not....I don't email him, call him, etc.....he does and it is confusing. I am still very aware of the fact that he is married whether or not he wears his ring, so I have decided that I just can't.....it's wrong!!!! It is just frustrating when things lay low for awhile and then "BOOM" he finds a way to pop back in, even if it's a friendly email. I agree with a lot of what you and other people posted, so I have decided not to involve myself. I haven't spoken to him about my feelings because it's just not appropriate and I need to be an adult and dismiss my feelings!!!!! It's infactuation that's all...that's what I have to tell myself because it can't be reality!!!!! I figured maybe he is just a friendly man, who likes me as a friend, but I don't think that is the case and at this point in our friendship I can't deal with it anymore and I just wanted to know.....either way whether he does like me or not, it's becoming uncomfortable. Most like it's uncomfortable due to my behavior, but now I just want to get over my feelings and move on, but his behavior is confusing. Again, either way.....I need to find a single guy;healthy relationship. Thanks again, I appreciate it!!!!
her_halo_slipped Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 This is specifically for men....how can a woman tell/sense that you are interested? Please give me some helpful hints as to friendly touching; touch on the the shoulder, pulling hair, etc...childish behavior, eye winks, etc...Also, how do you sense a man is not interest; for example, recieving emails like crazy and all of a sudden nothing, no calls at all when normally I would get a call once a week, avoiding emails, etc...all of these examples I get; good and bad, so I am confused. I just want to know how I can generally/simplistically read a man. It can't be too hard, right??? I just have a lot on my mind and I need to slowly dismiss the feelings I have because I truly don't feel this man is interested. Just curious. Thanks guys!!!! Run DME run. This guy is a player and he is playing you and will continue to do so if you let him. Don't lower yourself to his standard. Find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. flirting and pulling back seems to be the flavour for many MM who engage in A's. Maybe it's their way of keeping the AP on the hook. Maybe they feel genuine guilt and when that wears off a little they flirt again. Who knows? Instincts are spot on in these situations. If you sense he is flirtng with you then he likely is. But why? There is only one reason......and that is to get into your pants. RUN now.
lolapalooza Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 If you are not interested in having an affair with him, why are you analyzing his behavior? What difference does it make if he's flirting? If you are truly not interested in his advances, tell him to stop.
Owl Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 If you are not interested in having an affair with him, why are you analyzing his behavior? What difference does it make if he's flirting? If you are truly not interested in his advances, tell him to stop. Worth repeating.
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