lullaby Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Hey, I took this out of a book recommended by someone here and I found it awesome and it's like that. If you think it, this is the core of the issue and we should be happy those people gave up on us so we can move on. My first ex bf, not the current one, was always willing to work things out, see? He didn't give up and it ended for other reasons. So there're people who are willing to fight for us!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH! F*#k, it hurts. It's rocking the very core of your being. You never saw it coming. You knew this was going to happen. You were going to do it first. You only broke it off with him before he broke it off with you. You guys were supposed to be together forever. You never liked him that much anyway. He was such a great kisser. The sex wasn't that great. You really liked his family. He hated your friends. You hated his shoes. You miss him soooooo much. There's no doubt about it-breakups suck. "But some things can be fixed,"you say. True, but can your relationship be fixed? Anything is possible, but we'd say probably not. Generally, if one person thinks that the breakup is the right move, they're probably right even if it feels so wrong. Because unless there are two people putting on the coveralls and getting down in the trenches with some duct tape and superglue and a fierce determination, it isn't going to happen. Need more convincing? How about this: The person you loved took a good long look at the awesomeness that is you, evaluated your relationship together, and said, "No, thanks. I'll try my luck elsewhere." Or you said it to him. Either way, that alone should make you realize that it wasn't a match made in heaven and they're not worth donning coveralls for. Anyone who assesses you or your relationship as disposable is not worthy of your time or tears. Right now, your mind is probably working overtime to come up with all the reasons that you should still be together. Your heart is hurting and your mind wants to find a way to undo the pain. Just remember, though, that any reasons you come up with are ultimately irrelevant. The harsh reality is that even if you have everything else in common, the one thing you don't have in common is the belief that this relationship can work. That, my friend, trumps your shared love of puppies, The Dave Matthews Band, and Mexican food.
spriggig Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Oh Noes! Even Mexican Food! We loved Mexican Food--surely she hasn't forgotten how much we both loved Sopapillas?! Really!? Shoot!
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Which book is this? I love it already and need to get it!
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Never mind - I just googled what you typed. Just ordered it
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