We were perfect together, but he doesn't want LDR and broke it off. I want him back.

[cupcakes]

Hi everybody! I'll try to keep this brief but I need some advice. Do we have a chance or should I just move on?

We met about 7 months ago and started our relationship. We were like best friends. He moves around a lot and he moved to another state after 1 month together but we talked on the phone every day. He moved back to my state shortly and we saw each other every day and had what I thought was the perfect relationship. We never argued and laughed all the time. Then, out of the blue, after 3 months of bliss, he told me he was planning to leave the state again in a week. He said that even though he loved me and that I was perfect for him, he didn't want a long distance relationship. I was shocked and so sad, but I agreed to the breakup, knowing I couldn't change his mind. We agreed to stay together for the remainder of the time he would be in town. However, the next day, I told him that it was upsetting that he didn't want to try and make the LDR work out, because we had been long distance before. He said he wanted to try and I was happy again. Then, the day before he left, he told me he thought about it and he really didn't want a LDR and we were through. Since the breakup, we haven't talked except for one time, three weeks after breaking up. I got into an accident on my bike and I texted him to ask where the best repair shop in town was. He immediately texted me back asking if I was ok, then he called me and we had a short conversation about my accident, my bike and the repairs. After I got my bike repaired I texted him thanking him for his advice and telling him that I was doing fine, most of the time. He responded saying it was good to hear my voice and he had been thinking about all the good times we used to have. He said he hoped my days would get better and better. I didn't respond back.

I've read about No contact on this and other sites so I'm sticking to it. He will be back in town in about a month and a half for a few weeks before he moves to another state again. I'm planning on seeing him casually when he's back in town. Do you guys think we have a chance? What should I do/say when I see him again? I really miss him everyday and I think we should be together, but we will be long distance from time to time because both of our jobs. Will he realize that being long distance is worth it for our relationship? Should I just give up and move on?

Thanks for the advice, I really need it.

[HopeLove]

Hi, unfortunately is so difficult to say. I think it really depends on how much he loves you. My ex bf said he loves me and when we met two wks after the breakup said he was thinking of me all the times and yet after 2 1/2 months he did nothing to get back to me. I think NC helps you actually more than anything to move on and avaid him or her hating you.

Good luck!