shaquira Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 he broke up with me on june 21 told me he needed time to think us over that was last week wednesday how long does he need.. am i crazy to go his job.. wait outside his workplace to talk he hasnt called, and i dont have his new number no i am not a stalker!!! but i beleive you go for what you want in life this nc thing is driving me crazy
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 You have to let him go, because unfortunately, he's let you go. I know it's very hard to think of it in this perspective, but he has done you a favour. You wouldn't want this flake around for very long, trust me. In a month or so, you'll understand. Best of luck...let it go.
sg64 Posted July 4, 2010 Posted July 4, 2010 Hey Shaquira, Give the N/C a real go and you will feel much better for it yourself and it is the best policy to get someone back for lots of reasons. I was dumped 5 weeks ago and been on N/C for 3 weeks, i got the old "I need space" routine and thought that was that. well today she text me 6/7 times and phoned tonight, kept the chat light hearted and went ok, one thing that sticks in my mind is that she said she really appreciated the Space i gave her (n/c) to you and me. so don't give up hope and give it your best shot, pestering an ex is a big no no and will certainly push them further away hope all goes well for you
Author shaquira Posted July 5, 2010 Author Posted July 5, 2010 -sg64 i know n/c is helping me i have calmed down a bit and i no longer feel anxious nervous scared etc...i actually slept well last night i am accepting its over... his loss! but i still have an open heart for him to come back still kinda confusing here!!!
sg64 Posted July 5, 2010 Posted July 5, 2010 Hey Shaquira, how you doing. Well if you can accept it's over, that's half the battle. Give the N/C a good go with no half measures. The ex- I tried it with is one of the most stubborn, hot headed woman I have know and if it worked with her we all have a chance.....lol. As I said in last post she really appreciated the "Space" I gave her, so give it a shot. I have gone back to N/C myself today, simply because it has to be her to ask for us to meet again, if ever. We had a great 5 min conversation but it aint gonna lead to marriage all of a sudden. Take things good and slow, start nagging that ex of yours and he is gonna get well pissed with you. Have a good day today, Oh and remember to repeat Tomorrow
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