stoploss11 Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 So the short is we never really had a talk about u and ending us. She had the most insanely pile of things thrown at her and and first I tried to call and text to let her know I was there. She sporadically responded sometimes a day or two then longer then right away. It was all over the place. We work together and we briefly say hellos at work but never had a chance to talk. i wanted to give her the time and space I thought she wanted. After 3 weeks we finally had a talk unfortunately it was at work and was 15 but she was obviously emotional and upset I let her know how I felt. Then this week we briefly text and the entire week i saw her meeting up and talkign with other people and got a little emotional and jealous I guess. I dont understand why she couldnt do the same with me. So i text her to talk real quick and she did. I was upset and came off more negative then I thought. She got upset and thought I was attacking her (not what I wanted). My questions now, Is NC the best bet to start up again? Is it too late? What do I do so she doesn't hate me for pushing her?
Numb Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 Sounds like she's not interested anymore, you're not that important to her. To answer your last qeustion, its pretty simple......DON'T PUSH HER!! Go NC and let her go, if she wants you she'll be back. But don't count on her coming back either then you have "hope" and that just causes more pain. Just let her go!! Hang in there, it will get easier.
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