BeautifulMan Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Sounds like she was using you to pass the time. Women will be women... Next time, always expect that they're being deceitful because most of the time they are.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 I met my girlfriend on okcupid. We have been going out for 3 months. Official for a week and a half. I suspended my account and have no intent on trying to find a different gal. However my curiosity rose and I typed in her profile. On her profile shes been changing stuff like what it says about her and it still says shes single. It also says she logged on last night. I probably shouldn't have looked but doesn't this seem like a red flag from her? Should I ask her if she still uses that site and see what she says? I have a partner but for a while I also still had a active membership on the old dating site why? cause I had a years membership and it had chat/messagebords I liked to use. However the difference was as soon as me and my bf became exclusive I changed my profile to say I had some one I never hid that fact by still listing myself as single! I was happy to say I was taken on there and my partner knew about my membership her changing her profile and again listing herself as still single is a huge red flag op! It def means shes still looking also even if she deletes that profile she can always make another one with out your knowing about it. Don't let her side step the real issue its not about trust its bout her wanting her cake and eating it to ide walk away now op.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted July 6, 2010 Posted July 6, 2010 Sounds like she was using you to pass the time. Women will be women... Next time, always expect that they're being deceitful because most of the time they are. We could also say the same thing about men no? ive never been deceitful when it comes to relationships ever.
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