girlwithbigearrings Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 Hello! Haven't been on here for so long.. I have a dating dilemma and am hoping some nice guys here could help me out I have been dating/seeing this awesome guy for the last 2 months. We get along and we have a lot of fun together. We had our first fight just the other day due to his miscommunication and my overreacting to put simply but we have made up and he thinks we're good but... i still have doubts: 1) i am moving to a different city in a month and a few weeks, he knows this and tells me often that he will miss me and will visit..i don't want to get too attached to him yet i am and can't help it 2) i have trust issues - his situation that makes me uncomfortable is that he still talks and "friends" with an ex who he recently apparently broke up with since we've talked about exclusivity (they were "friends with benefits" when we met) - i fear that they are still sleeping together 3) we've never made us being together official(though we have talked about not wanting to sleep with other people),i am torn as i want and adore him but it would be unfair to make him my official boyfriend as i am moving and don't believe in LDRs anyway, at the same time i feel i pretty much let him "have his cake and eat it too" Should I may be just stop seeing him now to avoid any heart breaking once I do have to move or how do I communicate to him about all these doubts??? If you were the guy in this situation, how would you feel/handle this? I feel it would be me hurting the most after all this... (the title doesn't really quite apply, i just like the song by the clash)
Author girlwithbigearrings Posted July 3, 2010 Author Posted July 3, 2010 Hello??? Anyone care to help me?
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