AlwaysConflicted Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 (edited) Summary of story: Dated intensly for 5 months. She breaks up with me because I'm going through a rough patch in my life and can't handle it. She asks for 3 weeks of space. I give her 4 weeks and hear nothing. I go to her house and express my feelings (didn't beg). I managed to get a date from that conversation. She sent me an email last week canceling our date (says she no longer has feelings for me). I replied saying I understood, respected her space and best of luck. I thought we were done. I had my closure. Then today she responds to my goodbye email that I sent 5 days ago. Her words: "I wanted to thank you for being so respectful of my space and let you know that I will also always appreciate and cherish the good times we spent together. I wish you the best as well. I wouldnt mind touching base at some point to see how things are going for you." Umm, you broke my heart and you want to touch base with me at some point? WTF I deleted the email and I'm not responding to it. Why even send me that email? Touching base? Am I a colleague of hers now? Edited July 2, 2010 by AlwaysConflicted
Div Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Sounds like she wants to keep you in her harem of guys who will be kind and friendly to her and be there for her when she needs them. Pfft. You did the right thing, delete, no reply and carry on NC and rebuilding your life.
hurt and devastated Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Good job. I really am glad to see you aren't going to respond. That would just confirm to her that you'll always be on the back burner for her.
Author AlwaysConflicted Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 I figured it was just a trick to keep me in her life. I will stay NC. I'll find a woman who cares about me for real.
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