Raderick Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 So a week or so ago I met someone through a friend through Facebook. From there, we start to chat with each other more and more as time goes on, and we both decide to go out for some coffee. Over time, she starts to get REALLY flirtatious through text messages and it obviously appears that she has a huge crush on me. Fine, I despise crushes, and I hate the concept of dating with a passion, but hell, I decide to go along with it. It has become to the point where she says stuff that makes me think I'm already her boyfriend (these texts I don't even respond to or I switch the subject ASAP) So the day comes (today), and I had to tell her that I had to cancel because my grandmother (who is essentially my mother) had to go to the ER and the outlook isn't very good for her. So be it, we decide to move it to another time. Then she sends me these texts saying she wishes she had me with her at some park with her friends, which creeps the **** out of me. 1. Her Facebook pictures for the most part show her face only. I like a gal who takes care of herself physically and mentally (body appearance included). 2. From what I can gather, she's basically hiding the rest of her body based on some shots of her. Ashamed of herself? 3. I have never met her in person, yet she sends me these sort of text messages. Should I run?
Author Raderick Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 Over time, she starts to get REALLY flirtatious through text messages and it obviously appears that she has a huge crush on me. Fine, I despise crushes, and I hate the concept of dating with a passion, but hell, I decide to go along with it. It has become to the point where she says stuff that makes me think she's trying to make me her boyfriend (these texts I don't even respond to or I switch the subject ASAP) which concerns me greatly.
Tony T Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 I'd play along with it. One meeting is not going to kill you, no matter what she looks like. Just don't build her up in your mind as a 10...look forward to meeting a 1 and you won't be disappointed when she turns out in between somewhere. And yes, if she isn't your cup of tea she may have some girlfriends that are.
Author Raderick Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 Do you know what SEX is? Is it when I put my pee-pee in her va-jay-jay?!?! What kind of question is that?
Diezel Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 What kind of question is that? Funny, my SAME thought when I read the OP.
Cracker Jack Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 You should meet her before you run, at least. How old are you? Just curious.
aerogurl87 Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 So a week or so ago I met someone through a friend through Facebook. Did no one else catch this???? Look this is the obvious and easiest thing to do. Ask your friend on facebook what this girl looks like bodywise. If it sounds like something you might like, go hang out or whatever. If not, tell her you changed your mind and move on with your life.
Author Raderick Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 Did no one else catch this???? Look this is the obvious and easiest thing to do. Ask your friend on facebook what this girl looks like bodywise. If it sounds like something you might like, go hang out or whatever. If not, tell her you changed your mind and move on with your life. I just asked him, and it seemed like they have never met either, just some random person that Facebook-friended him.
Author Raderick Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 You should meet her before you run, at least. How old are you? Just curious. Turning 23 next month. She's 22.
Author Raderick Posted July 9, 2010 Author Posted July 9, 2010 So today I met her, and lets just say she's not exactly the person I expected/looking for as in my suspicious were 110% justifiable and correct. Plan on letting her know that she is not what I'm looking for. Moving on from this one!
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