airjordan Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Hi guys, so I've talking to this girl for a month now, going out every time I invite her, she always answers my txts/calls. But, she never makes any plans or doesn't call me or txts me unless I do it first. Why is that? Is that normal? I usually have girls that I'm dating call me or text me without me making the first contact. What should I do about this? I like her a lot but is she just not making any effort? All I know is that before she met me, she hasn't been going out as much and always stayed at home. Does she expect me to do all the work?
skydiveaddict Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Yes she expects you to do all the work, girls love being chased
Diezel Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 You ALREADY asked about this girl. Stop being so pushy. Let HER come to YOU.
Author airjordan Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 so I'll stop calling her then. Thanks.
Bogo123 Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 It depends on the girl. I went through a similiar situation and tried ignoring her for a whole week. Well it didn't work because she never contacted me. But once I sent a text, she seemed really happy to hear from me. It can be various reasons: they want to be chased, don't want to come off easy, theyre just shy, etc.
fishtaco Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Or you're the temp guy. She's not all that interested in you, but she doesn't have any other better options right now, so she's stringing you along until she lands something better. I hope you're seeing at least one other girl.
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