Username37 Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 She kinda broke NC and got her brother to send me a happy birthday card....well it wasn't really a happy birthday card. More like a "don't hate me because of the **** you heard about me" card. I don't know. I feel terrible that she sent me this card. I don't know why. It's nice that she remembered my birthday and everything. And idk what she's really trying to prove with the letter. At least I got a Best Buy gift card out of this XD
Maggotface Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 I'd say she's probably wondering why she sent a letter like that too. You guys are broke up, it shouldnt matter what you've heard or if you hate her but it was nice of her to send you a little something. Not saying you guys should make amends right away but you should give her a little call and thank her for the gift so she knows you appreciate it and arn't upset with her.
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 Not saying you guys should make amends right away but you should give her a little call and thank her for the gift so she knows you appreciate it and arn't upset with her. Oh no honey...after all she's put you through? Take the money and run!
Author Username37 Posted July 2, 2010 Author Posted July 2, 2010 Oh no honey...after all she's put you through? Take the money and run! I'm not going to reply. I'm on NC!
Author Username37 Posted July 3, 2010 Author Posted July 3, 2010 Gah, she texted me today saying "Hopefully you read the letter." So no texting thank you? She did tell me not to talk/text her for the whole summer so I don't know.
brokenamy Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 Gah, she texted me today saying "Hopefully you read the letter." So no texting thank you? She did tell me not to talk/text her for the whole summer so I don't know. just txt her. "Yes I did. Thank you." and move on.
Author Username37 Posted July 3, 2010 Author Posted July 3, 2010 just txt her. "Yes I did. Thank you." and move on. This is an appropriate time to break NC?
LoveTruthChaos Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 This is an appropriate time to break NC? NEVER is the appropriate time. Her and her guilt can stick it! I would give ANYTHING to be in your position. To have my ex reach out to me, and to have the power to ignore it....PLEASE don't blow it!
Author Username37 Posted July 3, 2010 Author Posted July 3, 2010 NEVER is the appropriate time. Her and her guilt can stick it! I would give ANYTHING to be in your position. To have my ex reach out to me, and to have the power to ignore it....PLEASE don't blow it! shes trying to be my friend or trying to make me into her cushion. i havent replied back and i dont think i will. i dont think i can be her friend. i dont care if she was my first love and girlfriend
rager Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 If you're going to respond, make sure you ask her to not contact you again. I keep harping on this, but it worked well for me.
Author Username37 Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 So I've been on NC for like 2 weeks already and right now, I feel like I'm back on square one. I can't stop thinking about her and every night I'm having dreams about her and stuff. I'm trying so hard not to text her, I was about to today but I managed to stop myself.
Nikki Sahagin Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Its hard to judge the motivations of the ex. You hit the nail on the head when you queried if they genuienly want friendship or to keep us as backups. I still don't know to this day what my ex wants.
Author Username37 Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 Its hard to judge the motivations of the ex. You hit the nail on the head when you queried if they genuienly want friendship or to keep us as backups. I still don't know to this day what my ex wants. I think my ex wants friendship for the wrong reason. She knows she hurt me and I guess wants to lessen the pain for me. She basically doesn't want me to hate her. I honestly can't be her friend because she put me through a lot of crap and treated me like **** when I actually tried to be her friend. Gah exes are confusing people
Ilovecake Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 She's feeling guilty and because you've broken all contact she's itching to know what you are up to. Good for you , keep NC at all costs. You're driving her nuts.
Author Username37 Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 She's feeling guilty and because you've broken all contact she's itching to know what you are up to. Good for you , keep NC at all costs. You're driving her nuts. Haven't gotten a text/call or a fb thing from her yet. So I'm not sure if I am driving her nuts. If I am, then yay for me hahaha No Contact FTW
Ilovecake Posted July 7, 2010 Posted July 7, 2010 Seriously, why else would she break NC after telling you to stay away? It's because she's going nuts wondering what is up with you. Even though she told you to stop all contact deep, deep down inside she was hoping you would contact her so she can have her ego stroked. Doesn't mean she wants you back she just wants to know you still want her. Immature girls play these games every day.
Author Username37 Posted July 7, 2010 Author Posted July 7, 2010 Seriously, why else would she break NC after telling you to stay away? It's because she's going nuts wondering what is up with you. Even though she told you to stop all contact deep, deep down inside she was hoping you would contact her so she can have her ego stroked. Doesn't mean she wants you back she just wants to know you still want her. Immature girls play these games every day. I get what you mean. Yeah, she is immature. She has some dumb friends when it comes relationships and stuff and she's one of them now, which is quite sad. And knowing her, she always needs an ego boost.
Author Username37 Posted July 11, 2010 Author Posted July 11, 2010 i forgot to add, in the note she gave me, she also sent condolences for my grandfather. shes also talking to a few of my cousins (they know about what she did to me and kinda hate her for that) i dont know what game shes playing...lm happy she still remembers but its like what the hell for me..
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