FL Lady Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 I have met a nice guy and acknowledged that I am filing for divorce. Really, I am. He is not married but says he is in a "situation" that is not good. He's not married. He said he'd call in a week or so so we could meet for dinner and talk again. We have texted back and forth. What do you think ? I want to see him again. We are early 40's. Not kid. As a matter of fact, we both do not have kids which is nice.
Serenitynow Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 no one can tell what he means he could be lying to get you in bed could be seriously interested in you could just want to hang out with you to bost his ego endless possibilities .
alphamale Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 i cannot make any determination from the info presented
Author FL Lady Posted July 1, 2010 Author Posted July 1, 2010 For your tips. I am. It sure either. Next time we text/call I'll ask.
Author FL Lady Posted July 1, 2010 Author Posted July 1, 2010 Keeps overwriting me. Sorry for the typos!!! I seriously like the new guy and maybe, who knows, it will work out.
make me believe Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 I would proceed with caution. It sounds like he has an ex-girlfriend or an "on again off again" girl and maybe they are "off" right now but could easily be "on" in a week or so... IDK. It sounds like a potentially drama-filled situation.
Feelin Frisky Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 Just follow your heart. If your new guy feels the same about you as you him, take care of business and get together. You only live once and there are no guarantys--just a lot of ancient promises which have outlived their usefulness.
kiss_andmakeup Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 My gut says he is in a relationship but is bored and likes the attention and possible sexual opportunities he may get out of pursuing a relationship with you on the side. I could be wrong though. The only way to figure out for sure is ask him head-on "are you in a relationship?" Anything other than a straight "No," is a "Yes!" It doesn't matter if he says "Kinda, but...it's not working out/she doesn't love me/we don't have sex/I want to break up with her." All of that means nothing except that he's bored and looking for a little excitement.
Dexter Morgan Posted July 12, 2010 Posted July 12, 2010 As a matter of fact, we both do not have kids which is nice. I'm glad I have kids. that way when the time comes, I won't die alone.
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