someday Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Today I did a google search on H's online name and....I got a hit for Adult Friend Finder. wow. Long story short he had an affair about 5 yrs ago, we got back together and I found out he was on that site. So I confronted and he supposedly closed that account. Which by the way, when confronted he said he didn't know he'd actually created an account and thought he'd just clicked on the picture of an attractive woman. What? Do I have stupid written on my forehead? Well, heck, maybe I do. I’m not sure what I’m going to do now. I’m a bit apathetic about the discovery.
Jilly Bean Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Well, it doesn't sound like you care much what he's up to.
Disintegration Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I'm assuming that in order to have an account he'd have to register, and not by just clicking on a womans photo. Seems like he lied to you about registering and about deleting his account. Who knows if he's been continually on there the past five years?
Shakz Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Adult Friend Finder? Isn't that the site where hookers find johns?
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 To contact a woman on that site, he would need a paid subscription. He would have to charge it to a credit card which should show up on a credit card statement. Do you have access to his statements? With a free account, he could only view thumbnail size photos. He would have to create a username for a free account. He wouldn't be able to see full profiles or contact members. A friend gave me this information. I wouldn't know first hand.
bittersweet memories Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 Is he still active on the site? The first thing I'd do is see if he's still on there and active. I don't know if Google would pull up something that's old or not, but try not to jump to conclusions unless this is concrete evidence (it may be, I don't really know). It's takes awhile for it not to show if its not active. He will not show right away..
Green Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 Adult Friend Finder? Isn't that the site where hookers find johns? I doubt you'll be fining any quality ladies on that site.
2sunny Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 Today I did a google search on H's online name and....I got a hit for Adult Friend Finder. wow. Long story short he had an affair about 5 yrs ago, we got back together and I found out he was on that site. So I confronted and he supposedly closed that account. Which by the way, when confronted he said he didn't know he'd actually created an account and thought he'd just clicked on the picture of an attractive woman. What? Do I have stupid written on my forehead? Well, heck, maybe I do. I’m not sure what I’m going to do now. I’m a bit apathetic about the discovery. your demeanor is one of indifference. seems so anyway. so, why do anything if you really don't care? in fact, why stay married if you feel apathetic?
Shakz Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 I doubt you'll be fining any quality ladies on that site. Oh, I don't know, Mr. Green. "Sleek little f**k goddess seeks 9 1/2 inches to fill the hole in her psyche. Only qualified applicants need apply." Shows discernment.
lolapalooza Posted July 2, 2010 Posted July 2, 2010 I wonder if a BS ever set up a profile of her WS "type" to see if he would bite.
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