jimbeam Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I work with this woman and I could have sworn she was into me. I mean, we flirt, she talks to me for hours at a time after work, she touches me casually, she looks at me often. She always seems to want to talk and keep the convo going. She even asked for my number. One time we sat in her car for hours and chatted. She’s got a DVD player in her car and since we like the same music, she said we should watch some music (concert) DVDs in her car sometime. We let each other borrow some DVDs, so while we were texting later that day, I asked her if she’d like to watch one of them together sometime (based on the fact that she once said that we should watch them in her car). She didn’t respond to that, but she has always responded to all other texts, almost immediately. So did I read her wrong? Does it sound like I freaked her out? P.S. - When we were talking in the car it was until 3:00 AM in an empty parking lot...come on, who does that? She also waited an hour for me to get off of work just to be able to talk to me for the additional 3 hours...we would have talked for longer but the security guard came out and told us we had to leave, lol. P.S.S. - No, she doesn't have a boyfriend.
robdrm32 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 sounds like she def likes you, but she probably wanted to be asked out face to face. just let it go, its something that small wouldn't ruin "it" if there was an "it" potential. ask her out face to face after you feel normal with her. if she says no shes an attention whore. dime a dozen.
Shakz Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 sounds like she def likes you, but she probably wanted to be asked out face to face. just let it go, its something that small wouldn't ruin "it" if there was an "it" potential. ask her out face to face after you feel normal with her. if she says no shes an attention whore. dime a dozen. This is exactly right, except I don't know about the "attention whore" part. If you don't ask a woman out face to face she will most often be at least slightly insulted. Sweep her off her feet, my man. Before it's too late.
Author jimbeam Posted July 1, 2010 Author Posted July 1, 2010 This is exactly right, except I don't know about the "attention whore" part. If you don't ask a woman out face to face she will most often be at least slightly insulted. Sweep her off her feet, my man. Before it's too late. I've never been good at the whole "sweeping her off her feet" thing. Women have almost always pursued me, I guess because they like the way I look. I know it sounds bad, but all the women I've dated have been a "sure thing" and I've never really had to do anything special to get them. I really like this girl though, I don't want to screw it up any more than I may have. Any suggestions on how I can "sweep her off her feet"?
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