shweetie Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 i have been seein this girl for about 6 weeks have seen her 4 times but feel so much for her already, on sunday i took her out for the day to somewhere i knew she would like then booked a table in a restaurant for us too, then halfway through the evening we were chatting and she said there was no spark for her towards me, i dont understand as after our first date she asked me if i was her girlfriend, this is my first lesbian relationship, and omg this hurts, i have an email in my drafts asking what happened and there must of been something there for her to want to see me, she said she was not used to being chased as she is always the one doing the chasing, and i have put in this email, maybe she should realise that someone likes her enough to do the chasing, i just dont know what to do its really hurting i just want to drive down and see her to talk to her but do not want her to think im some kind of phsyco but have so many questions as when we finished on sunday i just got the taxi to drop her off and drive away, has anyone got any ideas pleassse
Author shweetie Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 well have spoke to her tonight and have arranged to meet up to see phanton of the opera in august, i just dont know what to do
Drummergirl_23 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Hi, I am a lesbian as well. Be careful about the first girl you date. I mean women in general. I don't know all the circumstances but for some lesbians, they want the challenge of "turning" a straight woman. I know many lesbians that are like this. I hope it is not the case, but that's what it sounds like. I'm sorry you're hurting, I know the first time can be really intense. Hang in there and don't let her play games with you and string you along.
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