smilesunshine Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 (edited) I'm writing on here for a bit of advice really because I feel really unsure about how to handle this situation. Me and my boyfriend have had a tough few months with alot of rows etc and it did come to make or break about a month ago, but we decided that as we've worked out what the issues were, we can work through it as we do really love each other. My problem is, we're in a LDR now we're not at uni (we met at uni). I've only seen him for a weekend once in a the last month. He just doesnt seem to bring up meeting up, i've said i'll go and see him this week for a day or two but he said he wants to see his mate and will have to see what he's doing. I dont bring this topic up much, only a few times i've said 'When do you want to meet up babe?' and he goes ermmm I dunno. I totally understand he has friends, which is great but i was only asking for a couple of days when I hardly ever see him anymore. Before we had problems, he always seemed so keen to see me. We're moving into together in September (in a student house) which I know is only a few months away, but we're not that far apart that meeting every few weeks would be an issue. The thing is, because of all the problems we've had recently, I don't want him to feel im putting him down or make him feel like he cant do anything right because if i ever mention an issue i have thats what he says and gets very defensive. I'm scared of pushing him away. I don't want him to feel like that because I really love him and the only reason this is a problem is because I miss him. I just feel neglected and like everything else is a priority over me. Does anyone have any advice over how I can handle this situation? Thanks.x Edited June 30, 2010 by smilesunshine
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