ALittleWorried Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t236315/ I don't expect you to read through that so here's the general idea. I've been seeing a girl for the last year. Six months prior to being with her, her ex of 5 years cheated on her and left her. At that time, she booked an overseas trip (6 weeks) for this year; she'll be leaving next week. We've only become really close in the last few months. Earlier in the year, we split for two weeks as she didn't want to fall in love before going on her trip. She didn't think she'd fall for anyone else in the year coming up to it and wanted to remain single; however, I came into the picture. When we got back together, I told her that I wasn't too concerned with what she does overseas. She's only had one partner before me, and that was her ex. This morning, we finally had a big talk about her going over. I told her that I don't feel like I'll still be okay with her fooling around. I told her that since we've become closer, things have changed. She's not the type of girl that will sleep around with X amount of people as she needs to have feelings for someone to actually sleep with them. I know she won't have any problem hooking up though. She told me that she can't guarantee that she won't. I mean, I appreciate her honesty, but I was taken back by it also. I'm 6 years older than this girl and I've experienced what needs to be experienced. I can hardly blame her for wanting to just let loose and then come back to a serious relationship. I know othat when she comes back, if I'm willing to take her back, we'll more than likely have a great future. We don't argue, we can easily speak with one another, we still enjoy eachothers company like it's our first date, and both of our families (not that it matters) really approve of us. We compromise, understand one another and it's for these reasons that we still have a healthy "relationship". When she comes back, I don't know how easy it's going to be for me but I'm fairly certain she'll want to start things again. You have two types of people in this world, those who want to be single, and those that like being in relationships - she's the latter. She could've simply lied to me, gone overseas, fooled around and told me nothing had happened when she returned. Guys, what would you do in my situation? In the last few months i've really fallen in love with this girl and I'm going to be losing my mind for the next 2 months. I can't even guarantee that she'll be hooking up, but I'd rather think of the worst case scenario. Would you take her back with open arms if you could really see a future with this girl, or would pride get the better of you and would you move on? Thanks in advance
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