bananaboat11 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I wasn't really counting. Last time we spoke was about 2 weeks ago where she finally realized that it's best we don't talk. I saw her by accident today at a coffee shop I ALWAYS go to now since I'm avoiding starbucks (where she does work) like the plague. ugh. After that moment.. I finally want to remove her from facebook and all HER friends, but I feel that's immature. I'm not really hurt... living life normally... I just don't get her... don't really like her. but.. she does have some of my stuff... and I've yet to see it arrive at my door (I asked her to mail it to me 2 weeks ago) ****.
BeagleGal Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I am now at 12 days NC and yes, i was counting! I haven't run into my ex and i hope that whenever i do, i'm over it or close to over it so i don't get all rattled by just the sight of him. I didn't think NC would get easier each day but surprisingly for me, it has. Although I will admit, i've had a few weak moments where I almost crumbled and sent him a text. Anyways, I don't really have any advise or anything like that, just thought I'd post a little something to this..
Art_Critic Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 going on 14 days of NC (give or take) Great going... can't wait til I read this : going on 140 days of NC (give or take)
USMCHokie Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 After that moment.. I finally want to remove her from facebook and all HER friends, but I feel that's immature. DO IT. I don't see how this would be immature in the slightest bit. If she gets all butt hurt that you removed her from FB and thinks you're immature for doing it, then that's a clear sign that she's the immature one. But you already knew this...
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 I don't know. There's always the 'what if...?' so many what if's going through my head. I need to maintain NO CONTACT forever.
Username37 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I'm 11 days in my NC. I'm on summer break and I don't see her at all. And I still have her on FB and crap but I don't check her profile anymore. So I guess I'm doing fine. I'm expecting a happy birthday from her in a few days. If that happens, IGNORE! XD
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 For me.. it's just another ending without a beginning. I'm done dating for some time. I choose the wrong sort of woman. A type that just doesn't fit with me. I wish you each luck with your exes... Sometimes I just don't know when I should try to pursue (being persistant w/out stalking) and when I should just move on. I've clearly passed that point of trying though. It's time to move on.
shadow2213 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I'm on day 10 it feels like it is getting easier except for mornings for some reason she is the first thing I think of when I wake up. You need to delete her from facebook it isn't immature and it helps out alot. I waited to delete my ex for the same reason then I saw the photos of her with the guy she left me for and that hurt.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 I said **** it. I removed her on Facebook finally. HER LOSS. She checked out emotionally. I'm not letting her drag me through the mud.
whatadeer26 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Removing her from FB was a great Idea. After I deleted my ex of 2 weeks today, she messaged me asked why I deleted her. I tried explaining that it hurt me every single time I'd look at her wall and realize I wasn't with her. Her Response, "You really need to grow up." Really? I need to grow up? I just told you I am having trouble and feeling sad and thats what you say? F you you selfish B. You're going to miss me, I promise. I really wish FB never opened up to the general public and stayed for College students only.
USMCHokie Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Removing her from FB was a great Idea. After I deleted my ex of 2 weeks today, she messaged me asked why I deleted her. I tried explaining that it hurt me every single time I'd look at her wall and realize I wasn't with her. Her Response, "You really need to grow up." Really? I need to grow up? Bahahahahah. She needs to grow up, and next time she asks you anything with the word "why," you can just tell her it doesn't matter. She doesn't deserve a reason...because the reason you gave was rather weak...and made me cringe a little...
whatadeer26 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 It has been really hard getting over her. Deleting her from FB was one of my better idea and thank God her profile is private. I was broken up with by text message and not given a reason, except that she needs time to herself. I wish I could fast forward time and not feel so badly. I was just being honest with her. During the day I pray to be asleep and not think about her and during the night I can't sleep and constatly sit up and think about what went wrong.
Author bananaboat11 Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 They respond by calling us immature because it hurts them emotionally that we could be so brash and remove them on facebook. People take facebook and all these social-networking sites much too seriously (I'm even guilty of doing so on FB)... but to know that someone that meant something to them, regardless of their opinion of you now is able to cut them out so easily HURTS. trust me. they're being insecure. I'm just glad mine doesn't go on FB often so she probably won't notice for awhile... heh
sean1970 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Bahahahahah. She needs to grow up, and next time she asks you anything with the word "why," you can just tell her it doesn't matter. She doesn't deserve a reason...because the reason you gave was rather weak...and made me cringe a little... Im not sure I would say 'weak'... "Emotionally challenged" maybe We have all been at the 'baby baby please' stage(s) revealing wayyyyyy more than we should have. He was honest and she will have to live with that crappy answer. And for the record, the 'grow up' thing was anger, not disgust. She was mad that she cannot see into your life now. Trust me...
sean1970 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 I said **** it. I removed her on Facebook finally. Nice... Get used to that feeling of control.
ResetReality Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Ive deleted her FB, MSN, and Mobile Number she is now a total ghost, likewise about me aswell shame really, i love her so much, but what can i do? where one door closes one more will open good luck people im on 2 weeks on NC STAY STRONG!
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