rivermagic Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 On the 10th my boyfriend decided to move out. He moved back in with his mom. He still called and stopped in to see me, and to take my son to the park. After his taking my son to the park, he started not talking to me online, nor picking up my phone calls. Recently, one of my friends had spotted him walking up the road with a girl. She fit the discription of an ex girlfriend. I didn't say anything. I had been trying to call him for a few days and no one would pick up, so I blocked my number,Then one day I turned on his facebook and seen that this girl had sent him a heart on his wall. It made me mad so I basically told him that I heard he was with her, and I wanted him to move his things and get out of my life, and have a good life with her and her kids. He then deleted me off facebook. I called him up to see why and he started screaming at me, telling me I was stupid, and crazy, and he didn't do it. It was the maddest I have ever seen him he sounded more inraged then guilty. He said he did not. And continued to tell me off. His mom was in the background telling him to stop and to calm down, He then hung up on me. I called back and she said he was really upset right then and couldn't talk. I know the other girl knows now, because we had one mutual friend together, and she deleted him, and hid all of her information. Why would he tell her? Why would he keep her on the list and not me? He now has deleted me completely off his msn. He claimed on the phone he would be here in a few days to get his things. Why not get them right then? It is nice stuff to. He even told me to sell it. We are expecting a baby in October, and he completely ignores me now, do you think he will come around? I feel bad to jump to conclusions, but I honestly thought he was cheating. My biggest issue is why she would go through the actions to protect her privacy, and delete her mutual friends. Why would he tell her?
2sunny Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 this is usually the reaction of a person who is terribly guilty and has gotten caught. just sayin'
spriggig Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 It is nice stuff too. He even told me to sell it. We are expecting a baby in October He's cheating, and has been. He feels terribly guilty and that is why he told you to sell his stuff. Don't do it unless you really need to cover a debt that he owes you because he will change his mind on this. Someone should chime in on child support for unmarried couples, I don't have a clue on this.
Rabican Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 "On the 10th my boyfriend decided to move out. He moved back in with his mom." What am I missing? I would contact a lawyer now and establish paternity and being the process of sueing for child support on the child you will have in October.
Samantha0905 Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Just judging from what you've said, I think it's a typical reaction for someone to yell/be angry at someone else when they are trying to divert attention from their own actions. It's easier for him to yell at you than honestly admit he's a cheating cad. I imagine his guilt is even larger because he's cheating on a woman who is pregnant with his child. He has nothing of which he can be proud at the moment and instead of just owning up, he's still yelling at you. Nice guy. Deleting you on facebook, etc. further points to him cheating. If you want him to pay child support, I'd be contacting an attorney.
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