JoJola Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 From a mans perspective...how many times will he go back to an ex for sex? Claiming she is the person he has had the best sex with ever???? That he date me for an extra month because of the sex....failed to tell me that before he dissapeared. Now, he has contacted me after two months of NC..even though I initated it..he asked me out(I did not mention seeing each other)..so i went; now we have seen each other twice a week for 4 weeks now? We go out to our favorite place and he shows his affection for me in public..and yes, the sex is good. When I want to leave after sex he wants me to stay all night. Now, is this really A Booty call only...or is he seeing something different???
Author JoJola Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 We have not really discussed anything yet...I did not think it would go on this long to be honest. I know I should bring it up but am worried at the same time if this is the right time to do so... I am not sure what I want it to be yet and needed some opinions and advice on what he may be thinking .
Author JoJola Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 We are getting together again tomorrow...this time at my request; however he does respond asap...so should I question this yet or wait longer?
Serenitynow Posted June 30, 2010 Posted June 30, 2010 Are you really going to let total strangers determine what you do in your personal life ? And do you always just speculate instead of just talking to the guy ? .
Author JoJola Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 Nope, I do not let total strangers determine my life; however isnt that what this is used for..not for determination but to get the opinions of others that may see things in a different perspective? I agree; I am not always the best at communication with men and I should talk to him about this..that is true. I should not just speculate on this issue. I have learned that sometimes you should approach and others you should give some time so I am asking.
Author JoJola Posted June 30, 2010 Author Posted June 30, 2010 And i feel as if I have been given somewhat of a second chance with this man whom I adore..i am afraid of screwing this up by sounding pushy, needy, etc...I dont want to do that; I feel I have done that in the past and pushed him away.
Diezel Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 An ex is an ex for a reason. I'd NEVER go back for sex.
carhill Posted July 3, 2010 Posted July 3, 2010 From a mans perspective...how many times will he go back to an ex for sex? Obviously not your man, but, for me, zero, and I'm not yet legally divorced from my 'ex'. IMO, such a man is showing you who he really is. Pay careful attention to it. Here it is: Claiming she is the person he has had the best sex with ever???? That he date me for an extra month because of the sex....failed to tell me that before he dissapeared. Now, he has contacted me after two months of NC..even though I initated it. Telling you such things, disappearing, all adds up to his perspective; his path. Is that a path you really want to walk?
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