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Who I am vs Who I wanna be


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I have a bit of reputation amongst my friends and those who know me.

 

I don't assume everyone knows it, I'm not that important. I get with a lot of women. Some ridiculously hot, others not so much.

 

I have been settling lately - and I am tired of it. I find myself reaching out to girls from the past just to get some. Not healthy behavior.

 

I think what is bothering me most is the fact that I haven't been with someone I am TRULY attracted to in quite awhile. OK, so it's been a year, and I effed that one up.

 

Anyhow, I've met someone now who I truly like and I'm having trouble amping up my efforts. When I do make a move (I haven't made many) she reciprocates. I can give you specifics if you like. I am basically being aloof but in all honesty - I want things to move forward a stage or two. How can I get it there?

 

The reason I gave you the back story is because when it comes to women I generally don't really like at all, I have no trouble getting them in bed and if I wanted to - could date further. When a girl comes along I really like, I FREEZE UP and become a dork.

 

Remember Steve Urkel from Family Matters and his alter ego Stefan?

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