gaijingirl Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 Hi everyone I feel so stupid as my ex and I have broken up for the third time but I still want him back. We're in love but every time something comes up with his adult kids he cuts me off and withdraws. It's become a pattern now and I know I can't go back, but I'm so sad because we're happy together until his family stuff comes up. The first time he broke up with me was brutal and I was devastated as I didn't see it coming. He went back to his ex wife but came back to me 3 months later because he missed me terribly. He hasn't gone back to her again, but can't seem to reconcile having me and a relatiionship with his kids. Consequently I feel insecure when he does see them, and down it goes. I think telling the story here is giving me the answer - I know I can't go back but it doesn't stop me wanting to. Has anyone else had this experience?
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