HurtinginTexas Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 which is typically first to quit the NC the dumper or the dumpee? What are the reasons for NC other than to get a clear head? I dont want to contect him. Believe it or not this LS blog keeps me grounded I just have all these feelings inside to get out. To tell him how I feel. How could we lose us. I miss him. How could he leave and not be honest. I can never tell him Im hurt?
whichwayisup Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 I take it he was the one who intiated NC? If so, then respect his wishes and don't contact him. Read this everytime you feel like contacting him.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/
Author HurtinginTexas Posted June 28, 2010 Author Posted June 28, 2010 I take it he was the one who intiated NC? If so, then respect his wishes and don't contact him. Read this everytime you feel like contacting him.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56954/ NO he hasnt contacted me. All the other times he would have by now. Its been 35 days and nothing. I was just asking
califnan Posted June 29, 2010 Posted June 29, 2010 which is typically first to quit the NC the dumper or the dumpee? What are the reasons for NC other than to get a clear head? I dont want to contect him. Believe it or not this LS blog keeps me grounded I just have all these feelings inside to get out. To tell him how I feel. How could we lose us. I miss him. How could he leave and not be honest. I can never tell him Im hurt? ------------------- Hurting.. I read your last thread to get briefed a little further.. There's something wrong with him .. suicidal and then seeking new relationships .. before your closure.. No wonder his wife wishes to run from him.. Yes, NC is supposed to clear your head - and see the relationship for what it was - or Wasn't ... Also, I would think that if he has a brain - NC could make him a little repentant as well .... no need to say anything to him .. Keep with NC and LS.
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