Blue6 Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 I think all my posts from here on out have nothing to do with her, but more about the aftermath and what I need to do to get myself back on track. At 8 months post breakup, I don't really feel anything for her anymore. It probably helps that she is 2500 miles away living in another city. I can't help but still feel the humiliation she put me through when she ended it. She broke my heart and spit on my face and didn't even blink an eye. Everyone close to me who i've told about the break up seem to have that same odd/shocked look on their face after I recapped it for them. I don't want her back and I know that I hated the guy I became when I was with her but it's still something I carry with me almost everyday. I am not looking to get into another relationship anytime soon, in fact I don't think i'll be able to date for a long time because of the damage she did and the healing I need to do. I guess I am asking if its normal all these months later to still be feeling this way. I am not perfect and flawed like everyone else, but when someone humiliates you to your core I don't quite know how I am suppose to shake that like it's not a thing. ugh....
GrayClouds Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 I think all my posts from here on out have nothing to do with her, but more about the aftermath and what I need to do to get myself back on track. At 8 months post breakup, I don't really feel anything for her anymore. It probably helps that she is 2500 miles away living in another city. I can't help but still feel the humiliation she put me through when she ended it. She broke my heart and spit on my face and didn't even blink an eye. Everyone close to me who i've told about the break up seem to have that same odd/shocked look on their face after I recapped it for them. I don't want her back and I know that I hated the guy I became when I was with her but it's still something I carry with me almost everyday. I am not looking to get into another relationship anytime soon, in fact I don't think i'll be able to date for a long time because of the damage she did and the healing I need to do. I guess I am asking if its normal all these months later to still be feeling this way. I am not perfect and flawed like everyone else, but when someone humiliates you to your core I don't quite know how I am suppose to shake that like it's not a thing. ugh.... Yes it is normal, it seems that usually it around this time you start turning a corner. Do not worry about a realtionship right now, in fact staying away from them for a time is the healthiest thing you can do. So what have you been doing to add in your healing?
BiAxident Posted June 29, 2010 Posted June 29, 2010 I guess I am asking if its normal all these months later to still be feeling this way. I am not perfect and flawed like everyone else, but when someone humiliates you to your core I don't quite know how I am suppose to shake that like it's not a thing. I dont know about the "real world", but on here it is perfectly normal. I wasn't groveling and crying about my ex at 6-8 months, but I still thought about her everyday. No one but the most shallow would suggest that you are supposed to "shake that". Romantic breakups have been the motivation for poetry, movies, songs, etc, etc for centuries. Welcome to the nastier parts of the human experience.
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