KafkasLastWords Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 Hi there, so I have really been through the ringer recently when it comes to trust. It all started when my boyfriend of nearly 5 years broke up with me a few weeks before we were about to move in together (his idea) and were going to get engaged (also something he said he wanted)... but this post isn't about the breakup... it is about the way one of my closest friends is handling it. One of my very closest male friends of over 8 years and my ex liked eachother, they got along great and had a good time together but it was always through me during the entire time of our relationship. They never had a relationship outside of through me. They never spoke on the phone, texted, emailed, hung out or facebooked. A few days ago, my friend texted me to say my ex invited him to his birthday party. I assumed it was just a "can you believe this!" text but when I spoke to him he said he was going to go. Then the next day my friend texted me to tell me that my ex was coming to his soccer party. This was all out of nowhere and, frankly was just too much for me... Since the breakup my friend has said over and over that my ex is a jerk and I deserve better so why is he hanging out with him now!? Am I wrong to be upset? I feel incredibly hurt.
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