bhobel123 Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 So my girlfriend moved to Seattle for a job. we had a mutual break. we both still have feelings, she is obviously starting a new life. after she left, i regret not speaking up because i was confused. i was confused on where i was at in my life. when she left, i expressed to her i regret it, and i want to be out there with her. she felt pressure and expectations etc. i am now going for a visit, where I am looking at grad schools and things on my own. when she left things got kind of distant, obviously because she was moving far away, starting a new life and had a lot going on: new job, finding apartment, and new environment. she was hurt and could not understand why i was expressing this all of a sudden. We have been communicating, some good some not so good. She does not want to talk about relationship, and does not want to have a long distance relationship. I am willing to move there for myself and for her and for us. Yes, i know i am a jerk for not realizing this until now. i never questioned wether i loved her, it was more me confused at where I was, and i did not want to hold her down. i know realize that i can be there with her living a life and working on my own career. So I am going on a visit... she is going to stay with me in hotel, or I stay with her. we are going camping for two nights. Does this sound like she is still giving me a chance to show her that I am serious and want to commit to her? Or does it sound like she is just being nice?
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