Bogo123 Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 ive had 3 dates with this girl, all of them went really well. But i haven't seen her in 2 weeks due to her flaking. First time she was sick, next time it was work related. Ive been playing it cool, but im really annoyed. As much as I want to drop her and move on, I also want to give it another chance since I really like her alot. In fact I would have moved on a while ago but she continues texting me and initiating conversations. We spoke for the first time on the phone for a couple hours last week and it was her that called. Im seriously confused. I want to ask her our again, but don't want to be flaked on again. What is a good text to send saying that the ball is in her court? Or how would you handle this?
sumdude Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 ive had 3 dates with this girl, all of them went really well. But i haven't seen her in 2 weeks due to her flaking. First time she was sick, next time it was work related. Ive been playing it cool, but im really annoyed. As much as I want to drop her and move on, I also want to give it another chance since I really like her alot. In fact I would have moved on a while ago but she continues texting me and initiating conversations. We spoke for the first time on the phone for a couple hours last week and it was her that called. Im seriously confused. I want to ask her our again, but don't want to be flaked on again. What is a good text to send saying that the ball is in her court? Or how would you handle this? She's just not that into you. You are a back burner man and either on the edge or already in the dreaded friend zone. Cut your losses now.
crimsonmike Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 ive had 3 dates with this girl, all of them went really well. But i haven't seen her in 2 weeks due to her flaking. First time she was sick, next time it was work related. Ive been playing it cool, but im really annoyed. As much as I want to drop her and move on, I also want to give it another chance since I really like her alot. In fact I would have moved on a while ago but she continues texting me and initiating conversations. We spoke for the first time on the phone for a couple hours last week and it was her that called. Im seriously confused. I want to ask her our again, but don't want to be flaked on again. What is a good text to send saying that the ball is in her court? Or how would you handle this? Dude. Maybe she was sick and had something work related to do. Ask her out again, and if she flakes, strike 3.
threebyfate Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 She's playing you. If you reverse the genders, the same would hold true. Walk this way.
cdubs32 Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 ive had 3 dates with this girl, all of them went really well. But i haven't seen her in 2 weeks due to her flaking. First time she was sick, next time it was work related. Ive been playing it cool, but im really annoyed. As much as I want to drop her and move on, I also want to give it another chance since I really like her alot. In fact I would have moved on a while ago but she continues texting me and initiating conversations. We spoke for the first time on the phone for a couple hours last week and it was her that called. Im seriously confused. I want to ask her our again, but don't want to be flaked on again. What is a good text to send saying that the ball is in her court? Or how would you handle this? This might be an opportunity to eff with her back. I know you like her, but get over it, she doesn't like you. You are in the friend zone as she's texting/communicating for attention, not seeing you. Girls who like you, see you. Here's what you do. If she texts you during the day, wait until later that night to text her. Tell her you're out with friends at the bar, having a blast. If she starts talking about anything (her problems, other people, work, etc) make some funny jokes and somehow elude to having a crazy fun time in the sack with her. She might think it's cute, she might all of a sudden get turned on, try to set up a late night visit and take full advantage of the short lived situation. She might be disgusted by it, think it's rude, think you're joking. If that's the case, tell her you're busy for the next 75 years of your life because you have plans. Then suggest she should delete your number because you talk to a lot of people and don't want to go over on minutes/texts this month.
Author Bogo123 Posted June 29, 2010 Author Posted June 29, 2010 Ive decided to just cut off all contact. Looking back, she's made very little effort to actually meet up. She never even offered to reschedule. I think you guys are right, she just likes the attention. Next.
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