xashxx Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 well umm here we go. I've been with my bf for three and a half years now. we've been through. lot together and we've always had eachother to turn to. he's helped me gain self confidence and made me realize what being happy actually is. but he's kind of lost his sex drive. now don't get me wrong, I'm not being a pussy and just asking a forum to help me, because I've already done what I can. I've spoken to him about this more then once. I've been on a short break with him to see if he really did care and it turns out he does. the thing is that when we got together we were having amazing sex all the time. and I knew the honeymoon stage would end eventually but it hit me like a rock. at his point in time I'm lucky to convince my bf to have sex with me maybe once a week, sometimes once a fortnight. I know I'm not ugly, when I go out I'm beating them away with a stick (I'm not being vain, I'm just saying I'm not the grossest lady out there). like I said we've spoken about it and he jus says that his sex drive mustn't be as high as mine. but I don't know. I know he wouldn't cheat and every other aspect of our relationship is perfect. I just don't know if I'm meant to accept that fact that this is how it is, or try to convince him otherwise. so my question to you clever people is: do I accept it or do I try harder? and if I try harder then give me some suggestions please!!
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