Kiddo Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 Hi, Im new here, This is going to be long winded so bare with me! I started chatting to a guy I kind of know through his fiance, (they live near me and my husband and my husband also knows his fiance) Started off chatting alot on social networking, Harmless enough at first, Then I realised we where talkin too much, So I put it down to having a sexual attraction with eachother, He agreed that there was something there sexually, We started to talk about how we could meet up ( we did a few times) I started to have feelings for him, Told him this discreetly, I thought it would have scared him off but it didnt, He didnt seem to mind @ all. We talked all day everyday through messages, I was falling in love, Im not sure if he was too, but wanting to talk that much its obvious he felt something for me too dont ya think?? Anyway, My husband found emails and confronted me, I admitted everything, Texted The other man to let him know we had been rumbled as my husband knows his fiance and would tell her. He did tell her and my husband and her have had conversations about the fling, I messaged him a day or two after to see how things where at his end, He begged and begged me to lie about what happend and stopped sending me messages, Since then I have discovered that the are getting married in a few months ( this was booked before affair) We both are in commited realtionships with childred involved. Why did he mean so much to me and I clearly ment nothing to him? My self and my husband are trying to work things out, But I cannot seem to move on from this guy, Was this all onesided? Has he stayed with her for conveinience, Why didnt he write back to my message? Any advice is great, Thanks
U2RockZz Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 why are you staying with your H,is it out of convenience....if so then leave your H, why waste his time ,money....i think he deserves way better than chicken s***
Ariadne Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 Well, When the wife found out it created hell in his house. So he doesn't even want to talk to you anymore now. He is just trying to keep the wife happy. He must have enjoyed the attention he was getting from you, but as you can see he clearly wants to save his marriage.
bestplayer Posted June 28, 2010 Posted June 28, 2010 (edited) Hi, Im new here, This is going to be long winded so bare with me! I started chatting to a guy I kind of know through his fiance, (they live near me and my husband and my husband also knows his fiance) Started off chatting alot on social networking, Harmless enough at first, Then I realised we where talkin too much, So I put it down to having a sexual attraction with eachother, He agreed that there was something there sexually, We started to talk about how we could meet up ( we did a few times) I started to have feelings for him, Told him this discreetly, I thought it would have scared him off but it didnt, He didnt seem to mind @ all. We talked all day everyday through messages, I was falling in love, Im not sure if he was too, but wanting to talk that much its obvious he felt something for me too dont ya think?? Anyway, My husband found emails and confronted me, I admitted everything, Texted The other man to let him know we had been rumbled as my husband knows his fiance and would tell her. He did tell her and my husband and her have had conversations about the fling, I messaged him a day or two after to see how things where at his end, He begged and begged me to lie about what happend and stopped sending me messages, Since then I have discovered that the are getting married in a few months ( this was booked before affair) We both are in commited realtionships with childred involved. Why did he mean so much to me and I clearly ment nothing to him? My self and my husband are trying to work things out, But I cannot seem to move on from this guy, Was this all onesided? Has he stayed with her for conveinience, Why didnt he write back to my message? Any advice is great, Thanks well if he meant so much to you & you are still in love with him , thinking about him , it is better you leave your husband as what is the point of staying with him when there is no love ? you might find someone else whom you can love & your husband too can find someone who loves him . Best of luck Edited June 28, 2010 by bestplayer
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