TINK1 Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Okay, long story short...met online late April...chatted made a few plans to meet, but soemthing always came up...after cancelling plans on me again, and then saying he would call and didn't, I called him and told him I was tired of things and meeting someone shouldn't be this hard...did not hear back from him. Last Monday he sent a text apologizing for what had happened...he was dealing with his ex from 2 years ago and didn't want to involve me in the drama...he fianlly got around to saying he still wanted to meet me...I said sure, let's start over. We went out last Wednesday, had a GREAT time and he said he wanted to take me out Sunday (TODAY). We texted a couple of times on Thurday and Friday, just "hi's" and "last night was great". It is now 2:30 on Sunday and I haven't heard anything since Friday morning, I sent the last text that day. I sent a text this morning asking what the plan was for today, and I still haven't heard anything. So, do I call him now or let it go and call him in a couple of days if I don't hear from him. Way frustrated!
tkgirl Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Okay, long story short...met online late April...chatted made a few plans to meet, but soemthing always came up...after cancelling plans on me again, and then saying he would call and didn't, I called him and told him I was tired of things and meeting someone shouldn't be this hard...did not hear back from him. Last Monday he sent a text apologizing for what had happened...he was dealing with his ex from 2 years ago and didn't want to involve me in the drama...he fianlly got around to saying he still wanted to meet me...I said sure, let's start over. We went out last Wednesday, had a GREAT time and he said he wanted to take me out Sunday (TODAY). We texted a couple of times on Thurday and Friday, just "hi's" and "last night was great". It is now 2:30 on Sunday and I haven't heard anything since Friday morning, I sent the last text that day. I sent a text this morning asking what the plan was for today, and I still haven't heard anything. So, do I call him now or let it go and call him in a couple of days if I don't hear from him. Way frustrated! no, do not contact him again.. and if he calls now I'd tell him you made other plans since you hadn't heard from him. He's flaky... and probably not done with his ex. sucks but you'll get over it... another flaky online guy... next!
Author TINK1 Posted June 27, 2010 Author Posted June 27, 2010 Hey TK, Thank you, I know I shouldn't call him, but jeez it sucks that I don't know what the heck is going on. You are probably right about the ex, even though she doesn't live here, she's one of those that clearly had her hooks in him and he can't remove them. Kinda funny, when a guy breaks up with me it is O-V-E-R, I move on. I just thought, and hoped, after finally meeting last Wednesday and having a great time together, even getting the 2nd date plan, that things would be different...AAAAUGHHHH!
Ophelia Rue Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Oh man, you need to drop this douche. I know that it's easy for me to say as a third-party, and I know you had a fun time on your first date, and it will be hard to do...but it's going to be a lot easier now than, say, a year from now when he's still being a douche. I know this from experience and I wish I could go back in time.
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