shaquira Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 (edited) Hi everyone! Thanks for reading my story I will TRY to make it short and to the point We were together 2 months We did rush in, i admit we have so much in common spoke of marriage, kids, moving in( HE BROUGHT IT UP) I wasn't against any of it- but not riht now! It was my fault! i played games... monday-I asked a question that i knew would push his buttons i wanted to see his reaction turned out not quite the way i expected- he dumped me right away I figure now he sees me as a potential cheater, although we loved eachother and we promised to not cheat. tues- nc from him i didn't calll either wed- i call to find out what is going on he told me flat out he wants to be friends omg i felt my heart palpitate Thurs- I show up at his house..He works nights and i was at his house 6:30 am (HE HAD A COPY OF MY KEYS SO I HAD A LEGITIMATE EXCUSE) I told him "you know i didn't travel this far for keys" (((ESPECIALLY AT 6:30 AM!!!!!))) and i think he knew this too! He wouln't allow me in his house to talk to him( i looked in but no one was there! ) thank g-d He said it would be best for both of us to go our seperates ways He is scared in the future i might cheat!!! that i was making it harder and i gave him a sad face and asked if he's sure and i looked into his eyes..told me not to give him that face but i was so hurt he said i was making it harder i was so choked up i couldn't say what i wanted to BUT I remained calm and told him i understand how he might feel with the question and that if i was to put myself in his shoes i would feel the same way he did. He then replied he needed time to think, so i said fair enough and i left sat- He had to move this week end so now i have no means of communication phone is disconnected I am so tempted to show up at his work but then i will look desperate / stalkerish this nc is so hard I'm still hanging on to hope that he will come back HE SAID HE NEEDED TIME TO THINK..IS THIS A GOOD THING OR DID HE SAY THAT TO SHUT ME UP(OR GUILTY) BECAUSE HE WAS FACE 2 FACE WITH ME "WHEN A HEART BREAKS IT DON'T BREAK EVEN" - the script ANY ADVICE ^PLEASE! Edited June 27, 2010 by shaquira
Lipsy10 Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 It was my fault! i played games... monday-I asked a question that i knew would push his buttons i wanted to see his reaction turned out not quite the way i expected- he dumped me right away! Playing games is NEVER a good idea but being dumped for asking a question!?! Am I the only one who thinks this is an over-reaction? He then replied he needed time to think, so i said fair enough and i left sat- He had to move this week end so now i have no means of communication phone is disconnected! He blows you off saying he needs time to think and then moves knowing full well you wont be able to find him/contact him. Sorry but he clearly wants nothing to do with you. I am so tempted to show up at his work but then i will look desperate / stalkerish! Do not do this. You will look desperate/ stalkerish. Keep hold of your dignity. I know you want to see him but he has your number, he knows where you live and he can contact you anytime he wants to. The fact that he doesn't says it all. wed- i call to find out what is going on he told me flat out he wants to be friends omg i felt my heart palpitate! He's told you how he feels, listen and accept it. I know its hard but it sounds like he wanted out of the relationship but was too much of a coward to tell you outstraight so he used this question as an excuse to blame you for the break-up. Men do this all the time!
Author shaquira Posted June 28, 2010 Author Posted June 28, 2010 seriously...you need to relax..maybe get laid hahaha instead of being so uptight online..anyways people like you are ususally the ones with the most skeletons in the closet! I'm sorry, but the picture you paint of yourself is that of a mentally and emotionally unstable person. You may not be, but you sure make it sound that way. You say you deliberately tried to "push his buttons." But you wont say what you asked. That's unsettling. Not only does it show you are manipulating, but it makes me wonder just what you're hiding. You look for excuses to show up at his house unannounced, and are now looking for excuses do show up the same way at his work. Frankly, if I were him, I would RUN--not walk--to get the heck away from you. Plus, I'd call the cops and get a restraining order. You sound a little bit crazy.
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