AlwaysConflicted Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 It's strange. It's only been 1 month since my breakup, but it feels like years have passed. I'm left with the question, "Why'd you leave so easily?" It's strange to think that no more than a month ago we were laughing and holding each other. Whereas now, we are cut off and distant. It's sad to lose a friend. I pray that you dumpers out there do it with class. Sit down with your soon to be ex and explain how and why you feel the way you do. Don't give false hope. Just be truthful and make sure to look into their eyes. I've only broken up with one girl and I followed my own advice. After a year of NC, we became great friends. To this day we share everything about our lives.
DenverBachelor Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 I'm left with the question, "Why'd you leave so easily?" It's strange to think that no more than a month ago we were laughing and holding each other. Whereas now, we are cut off and distant. Whatever you believe about the universe, God, existence, etc. -- sometimes people come into our lives, stay for a bit (or for a while) and leave out the window in the middle of the night. Everything in life is a learning experience and even the most random experiences have something to teach. Sometimes in life you can understand something that took months in a few seconds. Some memories in life that are just a few seconds may take months to understand if you ever do. People are constantly changing and evolving, but we all have "something" from our pasts that forces us to seek out certain experiences. Sometimes people get what they need and just move on. When you tell yourself some day that all things eventually end, you'll realize how important it is to live in the moment and enjoy what time you do have with whomever you are with. Because honestly, in the end, nothing will last forever. In fact, some things will end suddenly.
LoveTruthChaos Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Whatever you believe about the universe, God, existence, etc. -- sometimes people come into our lives, stay for a bit (or for a while) and leave out the window in the middle of the night. Everything in life is a learning experience and even the most random experiences have something to teach. Sometimes in life you can understand something that took months in a few seconds. Some memories in life that are just a few seconds may take months to understand if you ever do. People are constantly changing and evolving, but we all have "something" from our pasts that forces us to seek out certain experiences. Sometimes people get what they need and just move on. When you tell yourself some day that all things eventually end, you'll realize how important it is to live in the moment and enjoy what time you do have with whomever you are with. Because honestly, in the end, nothing will last forever. In fact, some things will end suddenly. My entire belief system in a nutshell. Good to know I'm not the only one
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