Why do I feel like this?

[josyjosy]

Its been 2 weeks since my ex and I last talked. I failed twice and called him and both times, things didnt turn out the way i want it to be. From then on, I told myself i wouldnt contact him anymore. The last day of school when i said goobye to him, i never stopped him from contacting me. I know it wouldnt be a lot but I know he would somehow text me. Basically, it really only has been a week since we stopped talking since I failed the first week and called him. I felt proud of myself for surviving because it is extremely difficult. I got rid of the urge of always wanting to talk to him. I miss him so much and i do think about him every single day. But I know that talking to him now might only lead to arguments like the couple times i called him.

 

today, i was on facebook and i saw he put up a status saying that he got a job. a huge part of me wants to be happy for me. i want to congratulate him. i want to know where he got a job at and all these things but i know i shouldnt contact him. a part of me is really sad because i was hoping that hed text me or atleast tell me about it. i cant help but wonder, does he want to tell me but knows that he shouldnt talk to me yet?

 

I dont know why i feel this way. i keep thinking about so many things. is this hard for him too? does he miss me?

[sweets_guy]

I know how you're feeling. You probably feel like you have no control over anything anymore. You need to know that NC (No Contact) is the way to go. If you don't contact your ex he will think that you're okay with the break up and that won't sit well with him. Don't give him any kind of attention. He might just need time to figure out what he wants and if you don't talk to him, it will only increase your chances of him contacting you. I can promise you that. When you at least expect it, he will indeed contact you.

 

It's tough, but if you can get through the next 2 weeks it will only help you feel better about the situation.