Choboto Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 (edited) so i work with a chick that i find rather cute and a great personality. shes usually quite playful with me, sticking her tongue out at me, poking me, putting her number in my phone by herself etc. Now i take these as signs of interest on her part. its been bout 10 months since i started workin with her and she will still stick her tongue out at me and make faces playfully at me etc. Q: do i take this as a sign of her still showin interest even after only having a work based relationship? now the reason i dont ask her out is because of personal family issues ****ing me up mentally. Im trying to fix myself and my situation before i try having a relationship. I figured that it would be best for both of us to not hang out or do anything outside of work in case my situation gets worse or i cant fix it. Now, im nearing almost patching my situation up(temporary atleast) and am kinda likin this girl now that im not AS mentally ****ed up. Ive started seein her at the gym and will say hi, but i take working out seriously and dont talk til i get done and she usually leaves by then. so thats that. Q: to late and get over it, or risk the awkwardness at work and go for it? another guy had already asked her out and she say no and told me bout it, so now im afraid of doin the same and making things uncomfortable for her with guys at work asking her out. Edited June 27, 2010 by Choboto
Shakz Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Jesus, what are you, thick? She wants you, bro. What's you're problem? You're making her feel bad about herself. Go right up to her and tell her you've been thinking about her and want to take her out. It ain't rocket surgery.
Author Choboto Posted June 27, 2010 Author Posted June 27, 2010 Jesus, what are you, thick? She wants you, bro. What's you're problem? You're making her feel bad about herself. Go right up to her and tell her you've been thinking about her and want to take her out. It ain't rocket surgery. i just figured after 10 monthsish that shed had moved on...guess not? and wtf is rocket surgery? lol, never heard of that.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Jesus, what are you, thick? She wants you, bro. What's you're problem? You're making her feel bad about herself. Go right up to her and tell her you've been thinking about her and want to take her out. It ain't rocket surgery. He seems to be worrried that he blew it by not seizing the moment. I can understand that. I'd say to her "I've been fighting this insatiable urge to ask you out for quite some time. I regret that it took me this long to lose that battle (and throw myself on your mercy.)" Then ask her if there is any interest or hope that we can date or w/e.
Shakz Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 i just figured after 10 monthsish that shed had moved on...guess not? and wtf is rocket surgery? lol, never heard of that. Only one way to find out for sure. The worse that could happen is that you'll have closure. The best that could happen is you'll have her. Sorry, not rocket surgery. I meant brain science.
Shakz Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 He seems to be worrried that he blew it by not seizing the moment. I can understand that. I'd say to her "I've been fighting this insatiable urge to ask you out for quite some time. I regret that it took me this long to lose that battle (and throw myself on your mercy.)" Then ask her if there is any interest or hope that we can date or w/e. That's a good approach, and he can always factor in that harmony at work stuff and personal problems as well, but, frankly, I'd keep it personal. "You always make me smile, and I miss that when your not around." Sounds corny but the truth always does.
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