msdaisy Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 Hello, I have a bit of a dilemma. I am 20 (nearly 21) and I have been dating my wonderful boyfriend for about 2 years. I have a great relationship in every way, except one-- our sex life. He and I have talked before about being in an open relationship. I told him that I didn't have a problem with it. I don't know if he's taken me up on this offer. I haven't done anything. Anyway, with that said..... I started a summer class awhile ago. The class is taught by a grad student and he's only 3 years older than me. I am very attracted to him. He and I see each other every day, expect weekend due to classes. I go to office hours just to see him. He and I talk about a bunch of stuff besides the class. I flirt with him if we are alone together. He doesn't seem to be upset about the extra attention. My school's rules about dating a teacher say that it's allowed as long as the teacher doesn't grade that student's work. Anywho, any suggestions on how to proceed?
imagine Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 We have an expression here in South Africa: Gou ryp, gou vrot. It means - Quickly ripe, quickly overripe. I don't think your V is going to survive long!
Maggotface Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 Why not work on the sex life at home instead of venturing elsewhere for it? Even though it's just sex I'm sure it'll still hurt your boyfriend if you sleep with this guy and you might get attached to the other guy too. I dont know, this just seems like it'll cause a lot of problems. Definitly ask your boyfriend for sure if it's okay to see other people, as long as you're both happy with the situation. Better to ask him now then after you do it.
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