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When one jerkwad ruins it for everyone


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I sometimes do Online dating, in some instances I meet women that I've been communicating with and I somehow JUST make it under the radar, because when I'm communicating with them, they would tell me about a recent bad experience they had with online dating, (like a date from last week or something) Of some guy that really creeped them out, got too handsy, or just got so overwhelmed by stupid emails from men...that she just decided to call it quits.

 

At this point I'd be communicating with them via their regular email address or IM because we've moved on from communicating via the website....so if she were to delete her profile, we can still talk.

 

HOWEVER, luckily, I would make it JUST under the radar, and I'd be the LAST guy she would meet from online.

 

Should I considered to be this darned lucky or is this necessarily a good thing? LOL

 

Yes, they actually do go out with me, but I think at that point, they have some kind of reservations or a bit gunshy because the last asrsehole was putting his hands all over her or making obscene remarks.

 

Any feedback on this?

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Sounds like they just want to vent and unload their criticism on you.

 

Almost like they stuck you in the friend bin before you even met.

 

If people are attracted to each other right from the start, I dont think they will whine and vent about their past experiences.

 

Although it is a common topic to bring up between two online daters, I feel it shouldnt be talked about on the first meet and great.

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It is common. I've had a few that bash their terrible jerky exes on first dates, only to get turned down for a second date.

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Sounds like they just want to vent and unload their criticism on you.

 

Almost like they stuck you in the friend bin before you even met.

 

If people are attracted to each other right from the start, I dont think they will whine and vent about their past experiences.

 

Although it is a common topic to bring up between two online daters, I feel it shouldnt be talked about on the first meet and great.

 

 

I don't know about that, since I assured her she wouldn't have problems with me, she cooled off, and agreed to meet with me.

 

I asked her if that guy was still pestering her. And she said he still was. I think I won points with her though, since I didn't act like a douche' like her last date did.

 

I wonder what makes you think a person talking about a previous "bad date" would be a bad sign for a 2nd date with you? Actually, I think it's amusing and a good topic of conversation actually...esp when you share said experiences.

 

Almost like they stuck you in the friend bin before you even met.

 

Not sure I understand. Actually, I prefer being friends first anyhow, and she knows I'm attracted to her.

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Ya know what?

Those guys didn't do anything those women didn't let them do.

 

I've known women that blamed their ex's being jerk on past relationships.

OK, but you knew he was a jerk & stayed with him? :confused:

 

stayed with him until you had enough....then dated another 2 or 3 guys just like him.

 

And it's all the guys fault.

LOL!

 

NEXT!

 

Tid-Bit - if she's hot for you, she won't say a damn thing that could ruin her chances until she beds you.

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