jeremy_s Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 here is my story i still dont know what to do so any advice on this will help but i am mainly looking for ways to get her back i read up on this and they want you to buy books. and i know how not to get her back by smothering her and all that but im look on the steps to get her back i first know i have to get a job and get my life together but here is my story...my girlfriend of 1 year 1 month broke up with me cause of her mental unstable problems cause its to hard for her to have a bf right now I care dearly for her and helped her out throught out all of her appointments with the doctor and psychiatrist and she broke up with me a little after that. She is very confused on if we are going to get back together when she is ready but she still talks to me every night and its been about 4 days almost 5 since the break up. Yesterday she was gonna come over and see me and I don't know what what gonna happen if it was gonna be bad or just the occasional hangout. she said we weren't maturing together or proceeding with our lifes which is true but also because of her problems that happened i was too busy helping her out but I didn't mind like I said i really love this girl with all my heart. I know she isn't going out hooking up with every guy there is so thats not on my mind.I just don't know what to do , and i have this strong feeling that I don't know what is going to happen but of course that is a feeling but I just don't know what to think anymore or what to do in a situation like this I do want to wait and see. Just everyday every min. seems like hours i can't sleep good I can't eat good I am a complete mess right now. Please help I need serious advice. thank you.
IfiKnewThen Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 all i can say is..there is an easy book to read. i mean easy to follow and real simple. men are from mars and women are from venus. we are truly different and NOT the same. we do NOT think the same and we respond to things differently than males do. i am a firm believer that if a man is not a stalker and is a decent guy...if he reads this book he can generally learn to understand a womens thought processes and needs and apply them accordingly and recapture her heart. i think its easier for a man to do this than a woman to get back the man it you are abusive, negligent and in la la land..you will need some other kind of help. but if you bother to learn to understand how a lot of us (females) tick and you are sincere and God fearing and do the right thing...you can have a REAL possibility of touching her heart again and possibly have another chance.
OnTheEdge Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 I know exactly how you feel...i went thru this last year..i couldnt sleep or eat properly etc too..only thign you can do is get out and get your life together..job etc.. if your meant to be together you will get back together..if she loves you she will want you back,,especially when she sees your working etc
winmyexback Posted July 1, 2010 Posted July 1, 2010 For you to get your ex GF or girlfriend back, you must make alterations your behavior and lifestyle, in terms of doing something with more responsibility and maturity. Show that you’re a respectful, loving, responsible and caring girlfriend and overtime, you could get your ex girlfriend back. Healing a torn heart or saving your relationship isn’t impossible but you should have the great strategies and get the appropriate advice from the appropriate people. Visit exbackproducts.com to get tips and guidelines to get your ex back!
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