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Is he too good for me or am i too good for him?


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Hey guys well this may sounds stupid but ive always been jealous of my boyfriend.

I think he is too good for me but all my friends think the opposite.

well here yah go

 

He is very experienced with girls and had his first girlfriend at 13. He has had 3 other girlfriends then me and has had sex with all of them. (i really hate knowing this lol) btw he is turning 19 this year.

He is crazy smart! I had him for a bunch of classes in high school and he was the best in the class in ALL the classes i had him in. Im not even kidding the teachers wanted to move him to higher up classes cause he would correct them

and once a sub teacher got mad cause he kept correcting her and told him to teach the class himself..and he did..and in the end the sub congradulated him because he did a great job.

He got expelled from school his senior year and just quit. (which is sooo stupid because he is sooo smart)

Iver known soo many girls who like him and i hate it! he has had stalkers and people leaving him notes and stuff all the time.

He is also soo funny but sometimes he can be really racist and stuff.

Also he is always busy goign places because he has so many friends and people.. just like him

I remember once we went on a date and we both turned our cell phones off and in the end we turned them on and he had 17 messages and i had 1..from my mom.

 

Ok this is sooo long sorry

now my friends think im better because

I am a very nice kind girl..he is my first boyfriend and i feel starnge knowing he;s been with other girls.

Im not very smart but one thing i like about me is i know english spanish and been learning japanese for 4 years. hopefully becoming fluent. Thats the only thing im smarter in.

I guess im kinda pretty

he has a really nice body and im not fat but i feel fat especially compared to him

Ive never had a stalker (thank god lol) and i cant remember many people saying they like me or anything i guess ive had guys flirt with me but i always get nervous and run away or something

i finished high school and goign to college.

i dont have many friends just a few close ones.

I just really hate it that he seems like such a better person than me but im not sure..i wish i was better for him

Should i just stop thinking this?

Posted

Seriously stop thinking this!!!!

 

Your insecurities will push him away.

 

Be confident in yourself

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Yeah, you really have to stop thinking this way. Who cares, if you like each other a lot, and get on really well, does it matter who's had better grades or who's had x many girlfriends?

 

Seriously. By the way, "now my friends think im better because

I am a very nice kind girl..he is my first boyfriend and i feel starnge knowing he;s been with other girls." That doesn't make any sense. Your friends think you're better because you're a nice kind girl?

 

Your friends are there to support you, and it's important that you listen to their opinions sometimes, but all of this "too good" stuff is silly, unless there are serious reasons why you shouldn't be together. (Nothing in your post)

 

Just have fun, be confident, enjoy! That's all there is to it.

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ive always been jealous of my boyfriend.

I think he is too good for me but all my friends think the opposite.

 

Thats because your friends will lie through their teeth and just say anything to be on your side.

 

You should be HAPPY that such a well rounded guy is interested in you. Dont worry about it. and dont EVER put yourself down in front of him.

 

Talking negatively about yourself in front of a date or gf/bf is not good for the relationship.

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