Pfiend101 Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 My new girlfriend works Saturday and Sunday. Which are my only days off. I would trade one of the days she has off for a weekend day however my working days M-F are set in stone. I brought up the idea of her possibly trading one of her weekend working days with a co worker of hers and she said that no one has weekends off. I dont expect her to change her life for me it was just a thought. So I am left with a dilemma. She lives 50 miles away. There is lots of things that I want to do with her that require spending the day together. What can I do? or Is this doomed for failure?
Serenitynow Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 my opinon, a lot of people that have ltr are either: desperate for a relationship with anyone looking for fwb just want a part-time dating scenario(which the distance creates a great buffer zone) cheating and needing another mate for an ego boost
Author Pfiend101 Posted June 26, 2010 Author Posted June 26, 2010 (edited) Thanks for your thoughts, I am not desperate for a relationship and hopefully none of what you posted holds true for her. Edited June 26, 2010 by Pfiend101
tomcruise Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 Here is some advice: 1. find a nice place & stay together. 2. Try to ask your boss if possible work on saturday but day off one day weekday. 3. Find another job or start your own business so that you can work anytime you like.
that girl Posted June 27, 2010 Posted June 27, 2010 50 miles is what, a little over an hour in the car? That is only sort of long distance. You have weekends off, so it shouldn't be a big deal for you to meet her on a Sat night and when your relationship gets there spend the night. Your concern about not being able to do any day long activities with her sounds to me like either overthinking or looking for an escape hatch. How much do you like this girl?
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