Mr. Noname Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 Hi people, I'm not new here, I visited this forum a year ago. My ex broke up with me after 4 years. I went trough hell, but I managed to get over my ex so far as possible. Sometimes I see her and I don't have the urge to get her back. My tactic was NC for several months, and I knew she never wanted me back so I went on with my life. I met a lot of girls after a couple of months my ex dumped me, some of them were nice some of them were not. But a couple of months ago I met another girl, I fell in love for the first time after my ex. It was wonderful, but there was one problem, the girl had a boyfriend! We dated a couple of times and we slept together. She said that she wanted me and was willing to give up her relationship. After some time we had a nice date, a fancy dinner and after that cocktail drinking at a local club. The day after I realised that the situation is not normal, she didn't want to give up her boyfriend too soon. She wanted me to wait for a while so she could think about the situation. The problem is, that I couldn't handle that. We had a lot of fights afterwards. After a while we made peace and I went to NC, I said I liked her too much to act normal. Now I'm NC day 10 and I hope I will manage. After 5 days of NC she contacted me, asking how I was doing and that she was satisfied with the situation (the NC thing), and if I was going to the pub to see a soccer match. WHY, just why would she ask something like that? Is it just politeness, is it to f*ck up my mind, I don't know. I regret the fact I f*cked someones girl, but she was the first love after my ex... A year ago, it was far worse that the situation now but I can't prevent myself to look at her myspace and photos. What is the best strategy, can someone give an opinion?
Author Mr. Noname Posted June 25, 2010 Author Posted June 25, 2010 Maybe it's just my sentence to feel bad and miss her, but I f*cked someones girlfriend, how sick is that
Div Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 She sounds like trouble honestly. If she can do it to her current boyfriend, I can bet you she will to it to you down the line.
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