angelsnow Posted February 2, 2004 Posted February 2, 2004 I'm not used to sharing troubles with strange people but in this case i guess its ok because its anonimous. I've been married for 18 years and we had our problems. So here i go i was wash the laundry and found stains on his underware and pants if you know what i mean. I got him out of bed at 2am in the moring and told him we had to talk. I ask him why he had these stains in his underware and pants, He look at me and said that he didn't know maybe it was leaking. Now i know im not that stupid seeing how we have not had any sex for a year witch for what reason i don't know. Because ever time i try to have sex with him he ***ways tired or i get my b***s hurt. Please give some kind of answer?
doniker Posted February 2, 2004 Posted February 2, 2004 do you mean cum stains? I am a married man and I masturbate daily...believe me you will find quite a few stains in my underwear on any given day.
Author angelsnow Posted February 2, 2004 Author Posted February 2, 2004 So you mean to tell me that his masturbate while he's at work and on the way home from work . Because he is not doing at home .
Arabess Posted February 2, 2004 Posted February 2, 2004 Doniker....I love your honesty!!! Angelsnow, I don't think I would give the 'stains' a second thought.....but I'd be concerned with not having sex within my marriage for a year. How was your sex life the first 17 years? Most guys aren't comfortable talking about their 'sex' issues (unless they are a seasoned Shacker...LOL!)....but it sounds like you two really need to sit down and have a serious conversation regarding this matter. Maybe it's medical, maybe it's stress....maybe it's any number of things. If you don't address it though.....the 'wondering why' will drive you nuts. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion it's another woman though.....not unless there are other signs leading to that conclusion. I would give him the benefit of the doubt till you've had a chance to discuss it reasonably and without accusiations or anger. Let us know how it goes.... Arabess
Author angelsnow Posted February 2, 2004 Author Posted February 2, 2004 The sex was ok. but when i try to talk to him he cann't look me in the face and he can lie pretty good. But there are other things to. Like phone c***s when i answer the phone they hang up. I just know that something is going on just have to find everything out.
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