SoccerPlaya Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 If a guy breaks up with you and it takes him 3 months of not talking to realize he's an idiot -- is it worth giving him a second chance?
Bangle Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 It depends on why he broke up in the first place and it depends on whether or not you think he is worth taking back? Once I break up with someone, I won't ever get back into a relationship with them. If it was meant to be, there would be no break, therefore I don't want to waste anymore time on a person that is wrong for me.
paleblue Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 No, because the same thing is just going to happen again. Essentially you are just wasting your time if you do.
cdubs32 Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 It depends on why he broke up in the first place and it depends on whether or not you think he is worth taking back? Once I break up with someone, I won't ever get back into a relationship with them. If it was meant to be, there would be no break, therefore I don't want to waste anymore time on a person that is wrong for me. No, because the same thing is just going to happen again. Essentially you are just wasting your time if you do. Depends why he broke up with you, not why he says he did. If he went after someone else he thought was better, then he's coming back because he's "settling" for you or making you his backup plan. If he just needed time to decide what he wants with his life or from you, then maybe he learned something. Thing is, people do change. Depending on your age, people can change a LOT. I know and feel like a totally different person than I did 3 years ago. I'm sure some of my ex's would not ever date me again based on the new person I am, but I also think it might work out better with some of them now that I've matured to the person I am today.
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