A_guy Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 So my friend and I went out to an 80's club tonight. It was fun. Towards the end of the night as everything died down I started up a conversation with a really hot Japanese girl sitting next to me. I mean she was really hot, but whatever... She likes to karaoke and I was like me too because I actually do and none of my other friends do (lame). Great place to meet people, get drunk, eat and sing. What is not to like? I don't get it. Well, she haphazardly mentioned how we should go karaoke sometime. It was a quick mention which I just wrote off as her being friendly. I had two beers and she was drinking water all night by the way. Then some dude shows up who she introduced as her friend at first and then as her best friend right after. I was all very cordial with him. I am a sociable guy at times. Disarm the companions. He really seemed to be aching to get into her pants though. Though asking for ones phone number is appropriate at times I did not feel this was one of those times. She is an artist so I asked her instead if she has an online collection of her work and she was like yea and gave me the website, which has her contact information (I was hoping for btw lol). So I guess I'll email her Saturday and work it from there. I saw some of her work and it is really nice! I was just going to ask her if she would want to go karaoke some time. I'd bring my friend and she would probably bring some of her's, best case scenario. What would you do? This situation seems to have a lot of potential to getting to know a really cool girl. I kind of liked how she wasn't drinking. Some girl got wasted and fell down the stairs. Ouch.
Diezel Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 Just email her and see what happens. But don't start a lengthy email exchange of back and forth for weeks. Just remind her who you are, where you met and anything that'll trigger the "Oooh I remember you" thought process. After that has been achieved, ask for her number. Once you get the number. Ask her out. The more time you waste with email exchanges, the more likely you are going to become her friend and nothing more.
guy.lepage Posted June 25, 2010 Posted June 25, 2010 Ask her a few questions about her art, appreciate what she does, see if she's responsive. If she seems happy about your communications, give her a call and ask her out. Skip the group karaoke thing. Her friends + your friends = one big mess.
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