paleblue Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 This is kinda just a vent, but I think im reaching the point where I do not care if I do! or don’t! Been talking to one wishy washy girl for the last several months. she’s like my text buddy. I hear from her just about every day. now after awhile of just that and nothing else except a public meeting here and there, I was like ok, next.. And I have continued meeting other women. but yet, I still hear from her. why?? not sure really. Now wishy washy girl won’t tell me what she wants with me, although I have asked her point blank. what do you want with me. I get no answer. so I take that as my answer. ok, so you want to just hang as buds. thats cool. there has never been any kissing or intimacy. Now when I tell her I am meeting other women, wishy washy girl suddenly acts super interested. calls me all the time, big promises to go out and do things, hang with the family, and on and on and on. including, but not limited to insinuations about the day we start to have sexual relations, etc etc., do I believe it?? ehhhhh not really anymore. I have already heard all this before and nothing has changed. Now I stop seeing this new girl I met, not because of wishy washy girls new found interest, but because it just wasn’t going to work out with the new girl. so I stop seeing the new girl about a month ago. Now a month later, what about all those big promises from wishy washy girl?? heyy wishy washy girl where are you?? I haven’t heard from you in days!!! Just two weeks ago you had to know were I was almost every second of the day!!!! You have disappeared again. lol. Am I upset? Not really. I just take it with a grain of salt because I already had my doubts. I plan on meeting new girls. I think I have all right since wishy washy girl refuses to tell me anything. I refuse to be THAT GUY. you all know That Guy who is just “Friends” with a some female hoping to get somewhere and never does. Not waiting around or going to let myself be used as some kind of door mat for someone who cant give me a straight answer! This time I am not going to even bother telling wishy washy girl if I meet someone else. I am just going to do it!! Who the he(ll) does she think she is anyway? leading me on and then never doing anything??? The only thing that sticks out in my mind is she told me she makes everyone wait a year or two before anything. A year or two. Holy Christ! Do I believe her?? I don’t without positive reinforcement from her that she is in fact interested in pursuing something. AKA: show me, don’t tell me. Maybe I am getting wiser because a few years ago I would have been all caught up on her words. Now I just shrug my shoulders, nod my head and say yup! if you say soo! It all goes back to being THAT GUY. If I am going to be That Guy, at lest tell me so I can make up my own mind if I want to be That Guy or not. So my point in all this is: Actions, not words, is what really counts at the end of the day! People can talk all they want but when it comes right down to it what are they doing to make you believe they actually mean business??
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