Tsm Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 (edited) Times New Roman]How strong is a marriage where family members (in-laws) get involved in solving the couples problems? For instance one partner moves out and then the family from both ends intervene Edited June 24, 2010 by Tsm
SidLyon Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Times New Roman]How strong is a marriage where family members (in-laws) get involved in solving the couples problems? For instance one partner moves out and then the family from both ends intervene Some people in families are more interfering than others. I don't think the fact that people interfere, is an indication of the strength of a marriage. On the other hand a married person leaving their spouse is an indication about the state of the marriage. This should be your focus, not whether or not certain people interfere.
jj33 Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 T I dont know your story but look at the position you are in? You are sitting on the sidelines hoping and praying that someone else's marriage fails. Is that REALLY where you want to be? I appreciate that you are still in love with xMM but its not a pretty place to be when you are wishing and hoping for someone else's life to self destruct. That is not how you want to find your happiness.
Author Tsm Posted June 24, 2010 Author Posted June 24, 2010 From where im sitting and what i know, the marriage is done, the W told me that, i know there's a possibility that they have decided to work on it after i happend. But what i know is that their being together most of the time is because the family intervened, of course its his decision to stay. His family is religous and they dont want any disgrace hence the interference. JJ maybe you are right somewhere in the deepest dark side of mine i hope for that so that i can have him, i know its wrong but hey
Fieldsofgold Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 From where im sitting and what i know, the marriage is done, the W told me that, i know there's a possibility that they have decided to work on it after i happend. But what i know is that their being together most of the time is because the family intervened, of course its his decision to stay. His family is religous and they dont want any disgrace hence the interference. JJ maybe you are right somewhere in the deepest dark side of mine i hope for that so that i can have him, i know its wrong but hey Please remember that one does not equal the other. Even if the marriage ends, totally and completely, does not mean that he will be with you. Not trying to be unkind, just have read too many stories here. Reality is not always what we think it will be.
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