TidalLife Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 I'll try and make this as short as possible. My recent GF and I have known each other nearly 5 years. She got out of a 2 yr relationship in which she was pregnant. Father was a perscription drug abuser and she asked him to quit, he didn't she left. We started dating about 3 months after they split, baby and all. Everything was going fine with the exception of him constantly calling and texting which annoyed her. Nearly a month ago we had a situation where she was supposed to spend the day with me, but she had other things to take care of first. Things didn't happen the way I had them planned and I blew up. She said she was going home and called me later that night to talk, I was an ass! Several days went by and we met and talked. She said she wanted to take it slow, I agreed. Again, things didn't progress at the speed I thought they should, Again! We had one other dicussion a week later where she said there was nothing to build on "right now". So, I broke it off with her and went NC. She sent me a text 4 days later telling me she was working again and the specific nights she was working. Since that time we have gone out to dinner, text, she's responed to mine, and had another dinner date for this friday night. I just sent a text telling her I couldn't make it. She said her mother likely would not watch the baby since she had to work tomorrow and sat night. Stringing along or taking it slow like she wanted before I broke it off?????
Author TidalLife Posted June 24, 2010 Author Posted June 24, 2010 I have read many of the post in this forum and see most suggest NC. Which if you read in my original post only lasted 4 days til she contacted me. Well, I just called her today and to my surprise she answered. She actually stopped at a local sports bar where she once worked to grab some food before work. Anyway, I asked if she would let me take she and her daughter to the beach on Saturday. She said yes, then said we would have to make it an early day as she has to work that night. The nights she works she doesn't get home til 4 or 5 am. I said I would come to her place and we could go in her vehicle so we wouldn't have to change the car seat to mine....kinda testing the waters to see if she would agree to me coming to her place. She lives with her mother and stepdad, which I haven't seen in over a month. I do have a good relationship with both and her mother has told me that she would like to see her with me, but would not cross the line into her daughters personal life. So, it has been a month and a half since we split and have had contact several time a week since she broke NC. Only thing is, the contact was initiated by me, but she did respond. So, now that this is my second post, can someone that reads these please give me a little insight as to what you think is going on or what I should do. Thanks
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