learned2 love 2late Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 So i had a really tough break up. was with her for 3half years, loved each other, she leaves me to have sex with a guy she works with, and who is already with someone. Everything was such a mess, I was a mess. she didnt care one bit that i found out. She didnt even bother to say goodbye or sorry. She is now with him, maybe his gf found out and left him. Why would she do this to me, i took her on holiday every year we were together, i always was with her when she needed me to be and now shes just gone and doesnt even want to know me. She tunred nasty really nasty as if she was enjoying it. I guess im just scared that i will never love anyone or anyone will ever love me again. Been a lonely 8 months around 6 months no contact. I feel so down right now
StarrySkyBlue Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 I'm sorry about what happened. Some people are just selfish and mean. It's bad luck you were ever together with them. Consider it a blessing that they are gone from your life now. Keep the NC and try to work on improving your life. You WILL heal, and you WILL move on. It took me more than a year to get over my first 'love'. Time will help. There will be ups and downs, but force yourself to go out and meet people again. It will help you heal faster. I wish you the best of luck!
brokendream Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 It's tough when things like that happen and it's not your fault. About 2.5 years ago I was going out with a guy long distance and just before he moved over to me I found out that he had been seeing someone for 6 months of the relationship. He pursued me for a few months until I went total no contact. It took me about a year to get over it and stop thinking about him every day. I thought I'd never meet anyone or be happy again. No contact is the best way and you will heal eventually, it just takes time. You'll look back on it someday and think of how lucky you were to get rid of someone like that from your life. She sounds like a nasty piece of work. It’s funny how some people can just change like that.
heavensmesenger Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 I'm hearing you mate. My ex decided to ignore me for a week then I was dumped via text message. I've recently found out she was cheating on me and she is now with the guy. She told me this saturday as she was telling me she wanted me back and was going to dump him for me, but this never happened. She told me to leave her alone. Its my 4th day NC and whilst I'm a mess I know I deserve better and you do too. Just think of it this way, hold your head up high that you loved her with all your heart and she did not. Your the better person in all this and guilt will catch up with her eventually. You'll get somebody that will treat you the way you treated her and you'll be happy. Go out, exercise, focus on yourself, meet your friends and talk to anybody and everybody. You never know what the future will hold.
pureinheart Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 I am so sad to hear the hurt...I just wish there was some way to make it go away quick...Hey you got my prayers and thoughts:(... It will get better and you will be stronger and meet another...
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