pratik Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 Hey, I wont go back on how i broke up with ex. It happened in may i didnt speak to her i kept a strict NC( I had not visited this site or read about it anywhere at that time) and it helped. But 2 weeks ago i broke it and well she ended up telling me she slept with some guy at her cousins place they are not lovers but FWB( Friends with Benefits) she has taken to drinking and smoking thats all i say. When i broke NC it i was back to square one i had to start over again it pained. I came on this site and now i can see that most of us(including me) who are going through a break up find it really very hard to maintain NC trust me it takes alot of effort. But each day you seem better you grow stronger. For all those who are about to start and just started it would take efforts but it works it makes you feel strong each day. Whenever you are tempted to break NC just come on this site and read the threads and you will notice most of us are going through the same thing and plus when you read someone posts you feel light and that you are not alone and it gives the strength to keep going. Trust me i do it and you actually get the courage not to break it just read the posts you will feel better or best share your thoughts here. There are loads of people who would help you out here and they are as the same postion as you are and been there and they really help you. Dont be afraid to share anything someone would respond to help you I really owe alot to this site and the people who post and help each other. It really is great and it helps me keep the NC. It helps me to keep going. So a big THANK YOU to all who post their feelings and to all those who help. Again THANK YOU LS.
brokendream Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 What a lovely post so glad NC is working for you...I just started on Monday and it's tough
Author pratik Posted June 23, 2010 Author Posted June 23, 2010 i knw it is i get very tempted to break it and then i just read some posts and console myself it helps talking and sharing.
Username37 Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 Hey, I wont go back on how i broke up with ex. It happened in may i didnt speak to her i kept a strict NC( I had not visited this site or read about it anywhere at that time) and it helped. But 2 weeks ago i broke it and well she ended up telling me she slept with some guy at her cousins place they are not lovers but FWB( Friends with Benefits) she has taken to drinking and smoking thats all i say. When i broke NC it i was back to square one i had to start over again it pained. I came on this site and now i can see that most of us(including me) who are going through a break up find it really very hard to maintain NC trust me it takes alot of effort. But each day you seem better you grow stronger. For all those who are about to start and just started it would take efforts but it works it makes you feel strong each day. Whenever you are tempted to break NC just come on this site and read the threads and you will notice most of us are going through the same thing and plus when you read someone posts you feel light and that you are not alone and it gives the strength to keep going. Trust me i do it and you actually get the courage not to break it just read the posts you will feel better or best share your thoughts here. There are loads of people who would help you out here and they are as the same postion as you are and been there and they really help you. Dont be afraid to share anything someone would respond to help you I really owe alot to this site and the people who post and help each other. It really is great and it helps me keep the NC. It helps me to keep going. So a big THANK YOU to all who post their feelings and to all those who help. Again THANK YOU LS. Oh gosh, same story. Broke NC, found out she has a FWB, began smoking and drinking, and I became depressed Went NC, and everyday I feel better and better. Sure, she's still on my mind, but it doesn't hurt as much as the beginning. Glad you found a way to not contact your ex. Good luck to you
beraldi21 Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 Oh gosh, same story. Broke NC, found out she has a FWB, began smoking and drinking, and I became depressed Went NC, and everyday I feel better and better. Sure, she's still on my mind, but it doesn't hurt as much as the beginning. Glad you found a way to not contact your ex. Good luck to you Its a lovely feeling when you realise that you are starting to heal. Ive been NC for 2 weeks ,split up for five . I've stopped crying and he wasn't the first thing I thaught about when I woke up today.
Username37 Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 Its a lovely feeling when you realise that you are starting to heal. Ive been NC for 2 weeks ,split up for five . I've stopped crying and he wasn't the first thing I thaught about when I woke up today. Gosh. She's still the first person I think about when I wake up! XD
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