bill1234 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 She called me last week. She said she misses me all day, every day. She said there are songs she can't listen to because they remind her of me and she just starts crying. Every man she dated she never pursued because she compared them to me, and they didn't match up. She can't imagine life without me. She never stopped loving me. She said she thinks I am her soulmate. And that she would die for me. She moved out of my city but now she's moving back - quitting her job and her apartment, and wants to be back in a month. But... the relationship finished two years ago because she went off me, sexually. I didn't lose it, and I kept trying, but after constant rejection, I gave up. That was the situation for several years before we split up. Is it possible for someone to get their mojo back for someone else? Does anyone have experience of this?
mem11363 Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Did she lose her desire because you were "over loving" her? I define that as a sustained imbalance between how much love you transmit and how much they are sending back your way. You can sort of quantify by comparing who is initiating: - Saying ILY - Approaching the other person for a hug - Asking to spend time together - Initiating sex - Acting jealous/controlling - The first to try to "make peace" after a fight Avoiding fights because you don't want to upset them/have conflict with them. Just curious, do you earn a lot more money than she does? If so, be very very careful here. She called me last week. She said she misses me all day, every day. She said there are songs she can't listen to because they remind her of me and she just starts crying. Every man she dated she never pursued because she compared them to me, and they didn't match up. She can't imagine life without me. She never stopped loving me. She said she thinks I am her soulmate. And that she would die for me. She moved out of my city but now she's moving back - quitting her job and her apartment, and wants to be back in a month. But... the relationship finished two years ago because she went off me, sexually. I didn't lose it, and I kept trying, but after constant rejection, I gave up. That was the situation for several years before we split up. Is it possible for someone to get their mojo back for someone else? Does anyone have experience of this?
mark982 Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 culd she be blowing smoke up your rearend, cause she needs a place to stay?
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