dodgerchick Posted June 22, 2010 Posted June 22, 2010 Hi guys I have a long story so if you read it thank you I have been with this guy since i was 14 back in 2002 and now 8 years later I am 22 and have two kids with him. We have had our ups and downs and we both made a lot of mistakes when we were kids. I always need attention I was a 15 year old pregnant and in need of a lot love. I started chatting with random people and sending pictures I was cheating by chatting because i never saw these guys and didnt realize the pain i was causin my boyfriend or myself. He caught me chatting one day and little by little he found out my hidden email account and he just became way more jealous and possesive than he was. I say this because when we met he was 16 and I was 14 he use to question me on my whereabouts and always wanted to be with me i asked him to leave me plenty of times he didnt he would threaten me and say he would kill himself.. I thought it was cute I know dumb but at that point I thought wow he cares. I love him I think I care about him i cant go against him or hurt him or embarras him but he does all that to me. He's becoming more abusive and told me today that the only way this would end was if i died or he died i know he's hurt and doesnt mean all this but why do I feel like i need him why do i feel like i am making a big mistake if i leave. By leaving I mean out of state because he wont leave the house and has told me repeatedly that he's going to make my life miserable just like i did his for chatting with those guys. I NEED ADVICE PLEASE>
LoveTruthChaos Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 He's becoming more abusive and told me today that the only way this would end was if i died or he died Here's your advice. YOU HAVE TO LEAVE HIM NOW. He is using emotional abuse over you as a form of control. Been there, done that. The day I left was the best day of my life. YOu have too much of your life to live for yourself and your precious kids to put up with this crap, and you HAVE to protect your kids. Think about what his words could really mean. He's threatening suicide...but he could be threatening something far more sinister, like murder. They may not meant that, but you say he's getting more abusive. It could be leading somewhere horrible. Dont' let him get away with treating you like that anymore. YOu deserve better. YOU. MUST. LEAVE. Best of luck
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